Yes I am 39 years old .. and I still can't tell when a guy is being sincere.. I try to give anyone a chance just because I know there are some good people out there.. It just really pisses me off when a guy leads you on .. acts like he really likes you .. spends time talking to you .. Talks about coming to see you .. and what he's going to do with your kids while he's there.. and then there is one small misunderstanding.. and it's like all that is erased WTF ? Then they make you look like the crazy one .. cause he talks to you .. one time.. then ignores you the next.. i get upset.. and i'm over reacting... idk I f'n give up ............