First of all let me tell everyone, just because girls have meat on their bones, does not mean that they are any less loveable than the damn barbies of this world. Big girls are the best lovers, and wives. And for any men who fail to see this, well you are just blind.
I will be the first to tell ya'll I am not a barbie bodied beauty.Hell I am not even pretty, never have been, never will be. No I am a big beautiful woman though, and I love me. I get lots of people who talk to me like I am just a blob of fat, and they do this because that is how they see me.I get lots of people who treat me like I am a piece of shit, well that I am not either. Well those people are nothing to me. I do not ask that everyone love me, but you should respect me first as a woman, then as a human being. I do not judge people by how they look but by how they treat me when I speak to them or IM them. I have feelings just like every other human being on this earth. And another thing, why do people come on my page and mess with me like I am some cyber whore? I am not. I am happily married and just want friends. Yes my husband and I have an open relationship, but that does not mean I am gonna want to sleep with every guy that wants to be my friend. I like having guy friends, they are fun. I like to hang out with the guys because I feel safer than hangin with the girls. There are a few girls I wouldn't mind going out with to like the bars and stuff,(AND YOU ALL KNOW WHO YOU ARE) but I don't go out. And I am not a boring person, I just put everyone before myself. I do for my family before I do for me. That is how I was raised. Also everyone needs to remember this one specific thing {MY CHILDREN ALWAYS COME FIRST, BEFORE ALL ELSE} They are more important to me than life itself. Anyway.......
I do not really care how people rate me on here. I am a real person and I am looking for real friends. I just ask that they be honest in doing so. I love me for me and that is all that should matter to me. My husband loves me and so do my kids, and their opinion of me is more important than anyone elses. Guys if you read this always remember that I am not a woman that expects anything from a guy just because you are my friends. And I am not the type of woman to sleep with all of my guy friends. I like to just hang out with them and have fun, and no fun does not always involve sex!!!!!! Just hangin out can be fun.Guys we women are not just sex objects or toys to be played with. We are not just pieces of meat that can be tossed aside like we are. We big women are better lovers, we care more deeply, love more honestly, and we definitely don't deserve to have all of you that are shallow to judge us for our looks. It is not right for anyone to judge another because that is not why we were all put on this earth. There is a purpose for each and every one of us, and to judge and be judged is definitley not the reason. Because not one single soul on earth is better than the next. Also, only God can be an honest judge of people, not other people. There are always people out there who are going to make us big girls feel like shit. But girls just remember BIG GIRLS ARE HOT, AND SKINNY GIRLS ARE FOR MEN WHO CAN'T HANDLE THE GOOD STUFF. BIG GIRLS RULE THE UNIVERSE, AND SMALL GIRLS JUST MAKE IT LOOK SICK. Yes, I hate dealing with shallow people. No I do not speak to them or talk to them on the instant messengers that I have. I also do not talk tot hose who think women are all just pieces of meat to be played with. I am a real woman and I expect to be treated as I would treat others. I do not call people names or disrespect them, unless they say something that is rude and unintelligent. I am done..... Please feel free to leave a comment or whatever. And think before you leave something rude!!!!!!!
