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Cougar - An older woman targeting single men for dating / relationships / fun...
Now - if you've read my profile, you know I'm attached - significantly so. Going on 7 years. That's a big deal...:)
But...prior to meeting Krista, I dated Cougars almost exclusively...from the time I was 17 until I met Krista 7 years ago. You have to wonder, why...right?
Well - there are many, many benefits to dating a Cougar over a lady my own age.
1) They have a decent grasp of who they are. There's usually no arguments created only because she can't determine if it's you she's upset with, or herself...It can save hours and hours of arguments that simply shouldn't have to happen.
2) They are supporting themselves - one way or another. Regardless of whether it's through child support, alimony, a career or a job...they are self supporting. They were supporting themselves prior to meeting a guy, and most of the times, wouldn't consider relying on a guy to support them, because they know how flaky most guys are.
3) They know what makes them look fat, what makes them look good, when (and more importantly when not) to wear something sexy, and what SEXY actually is. No trick questions about what they're wearing, no meeting them for a casual dinner with friends and finding out what color the thong and bra are (along with everyone else at the restaurant).
4) No games. I think that speaks for itself, right? I mean, I've never been a 'player', and have no desire to be 'played'. I mean what I say, when I say it. It's usually based on opinion, and opinions change - over the course of a day, or a week, or maybe a month. Shit happens, promises get broken...but none of it is for the purpose of playing a game, or to get something. WOmen
5) They have experience. They know what they like, what the men they've had in their lives like, and are more into mutual satisfaction than younger women - who either want it to be all about them, all about the guy...but rarely 'mutual'.
6) Alone time. They know what it is, need it themselves, and understand when a guy needs it. 'Nuff said.
7) They understand what sleep means. They have jobs, and they know you have a job. If an argument or 'heated' discussion isn't going anywhere, they're cool with letting things go until the morning...or letting them go altogether. Hell, most of the time I can't even remember what the argument was about in the morning!
That's it for this rambling...thoughts and opinions appreciated...
