Well as some of you know... I found the hard way my vasectomy kinda sorta grew back and I now have a little monster on the way...again..Quick run down BTW I have 3 kids with my 1st wife and didn't really plan on having anymore so yea it was quite the shock. What really made it " interesting " is how much the world has changed in the decade or so and how kids are these days....I say Im not gonna raise my kids to be all emo and shit but hell how do you stop it ? Peer pressure is a bitch and for that matter I cant say I did an excellent job on the first 3. ( in my defense the EX is mostly responsible for that because of the divorce etc etc. I wont bore you with details ) But what Im saying is Where in the HELL did society get so fucked up and WTF am thinking bringing another person into it ? We did decide not to term the pregnancy and its gonna be " interesting " to raise another child @ my age ( old fart ) and with a wife who has MS. Lets just say in a nutshell...I am scared as Fuck !