DharqeSaMaRaFY2's blog: "Who,What,When,Where and sometimes Why?"

Sometimes I wonder why people do and say the things they do. Is it to make themselves look good to you or is it to make themselves look good to them? People are a strange breed, we say and do things to impress the opposite sex, is what we say the truth or is it just something we wish we could be. Honesty is always the best quality in any person male or female. But it goes both ways, if only one is honest there is a failure in the relationship.

I've had a few relationships come and go and come back again but there is always doubt in the back of the mind when this happens. I often wonder why it didn't work out the first time and what makes me think its going to work out the second time.  I'm a plain person I don't dress up to impress anyone, don't wear a ton of makeup, and i don't take my friends for granted. I try to respect everyone but only if they deserve respect. 

I have made a few friends here on Fubar some are close, some are arms length, and some are in the distance just because I'm unsure of their true motive for the relationship. I used to think people for the most part people were honest and straight forward boy were my eyes opened LMAO.so not true..most people are liers **true statement**

I was told that my first blog hurt a few of you because you were not mentioned or for some other reason.There is no misguided intentions towards you it just means that maybe you will appear in the next few that i write or maybe you won't.... this isn't about you ....I didn't mean to hurt your feelings but sometimes that happens and there isn't much I can do about it. 

Friendships are a gamble, you place all your cards face up and you assume that everyone else does the same. But when you look closer you see that only half the card is face up while the other half is face down.Makes you wonder what parts of the relationship is up and which part is down, if you think to hard on this you will lose your mind,don't over think it. Over thinking will drive you FUNUTS lol or something.

Well I guess i stated my thoughts with this one but then maybe I didn't. Sometimes, there is a bunch of over complicated issues,facts, and thoughts but for the time being this is all I have.... maybe I will come up with something better next time

Have you ever really wondered who the people are in your fu family. Unless you know them in real life i can bet you dont really turley know them. When things happen and shit goes down are they truely there for you when need them the most I BET NOT. I have learned many lessons in my time here on Fubar and one is never truely trust anyone because when you do things usally never work out and most of the time you are left to dangle in the wind all on your own.CONGRADULATIONS you are not the person I thought you were and im putting money on it that you never will.

I have some really good and true friends that I will never forget they will remain in my family here on Fubar, others will just disappear without a trace, said to say but BYE. I've learned over the last few days that somepeople are truely lip service they say what you wanna hear but really don't mean a word of it. So if it sounds to goood it probably isn't what they really mean to say.

Now let me tell you alittle about me and where I stand..I DON'T like bullshit or drama, if you have something to say top me say it to me and not behind my back, I say what I mean and mean what I say, above all just be truthful and honest with me and things will be perfect,lie to me and i find out totally not a happy Irish woman.

In life everyone has a purpose, it's not the same for everyone. When you find out what your purpose is be dedicated and true to it.Things will always be brighter when you are. 

I LOVE my dearest friends, Softtail she is an amazing woman make sure you tell her that everyday because sometimes I don't think she believes it. She has been  there for me through alot and I need her to know that I love you much. Timmah now there is one cool cat, I know him in real life too and he is the here on Fubar that he is in real life. He will never change and for this he is always in my HEART. There are many others but I am still getting to know their true hearts and until I do I will not mention them.

Life is full of ups and downs, it doesn't matter if you have more ups or downs what matters the most is how you deal with them. Make the best out of every situation and remain with a smile on your face because there is always diversity nop matter where you look.Honest and Respect go along way.

Remember TO LIVE, LOVE AND LAUGH Aisling Dusachtach