We women give our men TLC and spoil them to no ends. When they (men)are sick, we wait hand and foot, medicate, and love on. When they are hungry we feed them, when they want us we never refuse them, and when they are hurting we rub them down and try to make the pain go away.
However the men are so not the nutruing kind. Take for instance my old man. I get sick, he yells at me to go take medicine. No such thing as being waited on, nor getting the meds for me to take. I yelp in pain and he yells go take a hot bath! No rub downs, no TLC to try to take away the pain. I say I'm craving something to eat, or hungry he yells go fix us something to eat then! I am in the mood to be frisky and well my tummy hurts, my back hurts, or something is just hurting. Does this sound like your man or men you dated?
Guess us ladies need to say it like it is, and quit giving away all our TLC. Start taking care of our needs. Wonder what would happen then? Hmmmm the things that make you go Hmmm.....LOL