Purple's blog: "when ya got em' by the balls...their hearts and minds will follow .Well some of them"

sit here today thinking of alot of things. I am amused but at the same time Frowned Have you ever felt that at one point in your life you feel that youve found what you want in life and you finally get all or just feel happy with the person your with. Like nothing can surprise you or go wrong cause it seems so PERFECT, but then in the blink of an eye its all taken away with one word, text, message,voice mail, phone call, email or some kinda of connection to the world. Well i have and it sucks but i guess its times like these that show you what kind of people are out there or the person you'll become. Depending on the way you take it at least. I can tell you from the experinces I've delt with this pass year and few months all that Shit that happens to you, take it. Take it all in and use it. Use it to motivate yourself. You might say motivate yourself for WHAT? But you can use that for anything. To not be the asshole girlfriend to lie in someones face and try to escape something you can't handle, use it to fight a fight , use it to say i survived a day from DRAMA and stupity. I know this one person who's the downest person in life, this person is willing to help you out with anything. And what does this person get from it shit!!! They found someone to care about and say wow im happy and what did that Jackass do Break up with them. Why beacuse they couldnt stand up and say what was on there mind. Screw that if your and adult you should be able to say look this this and that. But dont stand up in ther face and lie and say something a whole 90 degree angle different. Its bullSHIT and you should feel like and ASSSSSS!!! If anyone thinks they feel the same please comment me and ill be gladly to tell you wats up. and dont worry i wont be speechless if you noe me the way you should love PURPLE HAZE Ive been with a speacial person for a certain amount of time. But now it has seemtheat time has progressed with us we have changed. Yea people say that cahnge is good but sometime the changed isnt.

Why is it that after being with your "SPECIAL" someone things change. I mean dont get me wrong , not all the changes are bad, some are usually for the best but why only some. It sucks that when being with him/her you some times cant be all of you because of the reaction they'll give. Like take this girl i know Jenny Shes been with her boyfriend Jorge 3years now and everything went good until they went on for the first year. Like her boyfriend didnt want to be friends with her people and when she'd talk to Jorges friends he'd get all asshole on her. Why are guys like that. or in that fact why are people like that period, dont you think maybe if you were all good friends things would be easier in your relationship. Like there would be no jealousy and everyone would be able to get along with everyone else. I mean to me it sounds logicall. but then agen im Purple so weat do I know. Or another thing for instance, if your with that person already and you know they care about you why be jealous? And if you love that person the way you say you do then you'd trust them with all you have or at least all your willing to give. Remeber trust is one of the main things to work on with a person , when your in or not in a relationship. If you dont have that then there nothing to have at all. And if you trust them then you'd trust them when there out with there friends,hanging out with there guy/girl friends or not with you. Screw that" I trust you its them i dont trust , then thats your fault for not making an effort in getting to know them or wanting to get to know them. I just have one thing to say to all the couples out there who are having problems with there man/women. Dont fight and dont talk while your mad. Because things dont always come out the way they should. Youll say things you mean but didnt want to come out that way. Those of you who think that its perfect that way cause you get your way its not. Cause that person basically doesn't wanna deal with your mouth or ass so gives you wat you want to get you out of there face. so which one feels better. comment me on your thoughts all be here waiting to answer once im done with my life. Purple Haze no im not a mean or raging person. i just see people deal with this all the time .

There comes a point in time in your life when you know things are going wrong but you choose to ignore them because you think they'll get better but in all reality it won't. But yea there are those who believe this and im one of them. My advice towards all of you out there who have problem with some tell them how you feel. You don't relay on the other person to tell you whats on there mind because sometimes they wont tell you what on theres. Theyll say say they wont want to bother you. But damn it come on dude if its bothering you so much inside why are you going to hold it in and bother yourself and make things worse, i find that stupid and pointless. Tell the person how you feel and thats it . Even if they get mad at least you know you told them how you felt and then later they cant say well i didnt know. But if you keep it inside then your gonna screw yourself over and then make the Other person feel like shit like for real dude dont be an ass. I not writing this towards anybody but just for those who know what i mean, you know who you are. Just please follow my adive and dont let something good between you and a person you care about go to waste. Weather it be a boy/girl friend, best friend, family, or co- worker. Be a women/man and sat what you got to say and then try to work it out. Think before you say it and try to hear the other person out, that person might have something to say that can help out everything and you didnt even know it cause automatically you get mad, talk before hearing, or just dont care. Well comment me and ill comment back thanks oh and after it all go eat an ice crean at cold stone, have one for me.=) -Violeta-

To tell u the truth i have never been the type of gurl that puts herself out there to guys. Even in relationships i have never given completely 100% me because 99.9% the time that u do that u end up broken-hearted and with the fear of this happening to me i had decided instead of being the one 2 be broken hearted i was the one who would be doing all the heart breaking. I have to admit it worked. This way i fell in love for the frst time and i came 2 the conclusion that this is the only way 2 find tru happiness. After being like that i found out that even though being that person didn't let my heart be shattered, doing all this heart-breaking finally got 2 me and i found out that i wanted something more. I wasn't truly happy. I decited to find tru happiness and take a risk @ being that person i had inside of me but never realy introduced 2 any guy. Dennis has been the lucky one and my 1st trial to this experiment, because to me life is like an experiment. Our minds are filled w/ curiosity and so we try out different things but our goal is to one day succeed at something. Now i'm going to give the whole lovie duvy thing a chance. My hypothesis is that it's not gonna work and eventually i will be broken hearted. I only have one trial that should be enough to give me more or less a good conclusion. I'm very happy that ive found a person that i could fuk around w/ and that makes me smile & shyt and i hope i can make him happy this is a risk im more than happy 2 go along with, but with every decision there is a possibility for something good or bad 2 happen. Life is short and only destiny knows wutz in store for us so im gonna go ahead take this risk even if if hurts. In life the only thing u can do is hope for the best and laugh like u never laughed, dance like u never danced and work ur ass off cuz at the end u will be rewarded but u must always remeber that "Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." Purple Haze love ya comment me.=!