i had to deal with my girls dad last night and it went as well as i thought it would. not good at all. he needs help and eveyone that knows him, knows that. hes tring to live in a fantasy world where theres no problems and no consequenses. hes lost so much so far right now and hes gunna just keep falling. i want his to get help but he thinks that he doesnt have a problem. i care bout him to a point, but i still dont wanna see him fall anymore. it hurts to know that hes lost everything. hes lost his wife, 2 beautiful daughters, his home, lost of friends, hes no longer 1/2 business owner of what was his shop, everything. how do you get someone help, if they dont wanna help themself??? please help me! i cant stand seeing this happen anymore. its got to the point that now hes getting violent, and very verbally abusive to others, including myself, scaring my girls, and i do believe that he will hurt someone.