smilingbob2u's blog: "smiling_bob_2u"

I just got my fuzzy/soft/loose plaid pajamas out of the drawer..and as I was putting them on tonight, realized I would probably never have worn anything like these when I was still in a serious relationship. I guess I grew up without any serious hangups about body image...or I just like my body to stay cool at night. I don't know...anyhow...I remember one Christmas trying to figure out what to get my girlfriend at the time...and she wanted a pajama set. Now, being a typical guy in a typical relationship...I automatically assumed she wanted lingerie. Of coure, there are drawbacks to getting to what I want at two am when it includes garter belts and hose and all that jazz...so I realized that maybe I should play it safe...and get one sexy outfit...and one baby doll like Heather wears on the show with Hugh Heffner....a pink number. The baby doll won out..and to be honest with you, fellas(and ladies) it was a LOT easier to get to things when I wanted them<WINK> when the time came. Of course, it replaced the wool granny flannel outfit she wore all the time(she was ultra conservative...and always cold)...so I guess I won in some respects. I personally love a little eye candy when I am getting ready to sleep..a peek at maybe a little boobie bouncing around in there...you know...so I guess I won in more ways than one:)

My neighborhood is pretty conservative and on the brink of white collar...and I guess most of the people here wear formal pajamas? I don't know...I know I grew up with tighty whities...before the boxer thing caught on. Then, after a little time living in California...most of the clothes I wore weren't really that important..since they came off the instant I hit the beach...I had some hellacious sunburns at first...but it was worth it. I think that I slept in sweats most of the time I was in college...but after I got my own apartment...it was back to the nudist for me. I guess it is just the feeling of cool air on my skin at night...I love it.

I dated a lady that was conservative as well...and she wore almost always a silk pair of pajamas to bed every night...pant and shirt type....but I think that she liked to be naked as much as me when it was just us in the house....maybe it is just the way we see ourselves. I know from my experiences at the beach...that sometimes..the big guys with the big beer bellies tried to wear the speedos...and they probably were the main habitants on the nude beaches. (I just looked down...and sadly...I am getting one of those things)...

I dated a model once...and she had the best self-image of anyone I have ever met...she loved to be naked...and she could easily stand there talking to you in a grocery store...or someplace public and not break a sweat even if she was naked. She could also get off her dress the fastest I have ever seen. Of course, I think Hugh Heffner has the right idea...I would LOVE to live in a house of just ladies that wore pink doll babies that barely covered their butts....with a slumber party every night....one can dream...can't one? I think it boils down to the person's self-image..and the amount of privacy...if you have kids..you understand that(the two year old that can't sleep) Anyhow...what do people out there think? Do most people wear just underwear? or do they still wear pajamas? Lingerie?