I would like to ask all of you a question and I hope that somebody will be able to shed some light on it for me. I have a problem with a friend and she is not the first friend that I have had this problem with. My friend is a female that I have been friends with for about four years. I have told her that I have feelings for her and she tells me that I am too good of a friend and she dose not want to lose that friendship. Why is it that women complain all the time that they can't find a man that wants them for who they are and not for what they can get from them. And when someone that they know care for them for who they are asks them out they give that line to them? Wouldn't it be better to be with someone that you know cares for you for the right reasons, rather then go after someone that you don't know? What should I do about her? Is romance and being treated right that bad in a relationship. Why do women today always go after the guys that they know only want one thing from them and run to the guys that they know truely care about them when they get treated like a piece of meat?
Can someone please help shed some light on this for me?