It depends on the man. No guy is the same. It's that simple. Most women have NO IDEA what men want. Beauty? Brains? Common interests? Sex? Do men really want what they can't have? Very few of us are born "naturals" when it comes to men, and need to be taught what men want and how to be successful in relationships with them.
We don’t just want advice. We want practical tips on dating and flirting that really work. If you are serious about turning your dating life around and capturing a guy's interest and KEEPING it, then this might be the most important article that you'll ever read.
What men really want out of a potential girlfriend or wife is a bit of a challenge. If you're too aggressive those signs say you're giving it away too easy to be virtuous. Light flirting with a little withdrawal let's men know that you're interested but discerning.
Men, “wanting what they can’t have”, is a popular misconception. YOU Keep them wanting. Take care of yourself. Maintain some drive. Stay healthy and trim if that's the way they found you. Nothing makes men refocus their desire for you like you being desired, especially by other men. But if you let it go, they can't fool themselves into being attracted. It just won't happen.
As Willard F. Harley Jr. points out in his book His Needs, Her Needs-- and I agree, drawing from my few years of relationship counseling experience, here are the main relationship qualities that are highly important to a man:
Recreational Companionship
An Attractive Partner
Sexual Fulfillment
Domestic Support
Admiration
Loyalty
Respect
Love
If you are not providing your man with these important things, you may be sabotaging your own love life without even knowing it. In that case, get out of your own way! So, instead of trusting your fate to your love horoscope or wishing on a star, harness your own intelligence, strength and confidence and utilize those attributes to get the love you deserve.
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