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Through the coldness and impersonal contact of the cyber world, one does not often take the time to look and find that special spark of beauty and feeling when conversing with others. While it may happen by chance, one does come across that which can only be seen as natures view of perfection. One can make a happenstance connection with a special someone that exudes both charm and grace. One can find that by simply taking the time to ever so carefully get to know someone.......you find that through the miles of cabling, electronics and magic which is the computer......a real beauty shines forth.
In clumsily forging a new friendship, a new relationship with an image......a heartfelt posting, you find the perfection of a rose. It is not often that one feels the utter charm, grace and beauty in a cyber world friend. The shear elegance of words cannot adequately define the feeling of radiance that this special woman puts forth. In this new found union of minds....one can see and feel the exuberance of youth in her beaming smile and a fiery spark in the depths of her gaze. It is in the incomparable depths of her eyes that one can see her essence of perfection in her very soul. It is I that should be honored and humbled by her choosing to befriend me. My heart swells at the mere sight of her radiance....a vision of perfection that is truly rare among that which passes each day. It is I that should bow before the limitless grace in which she emits ...even if she is but a photo and texts exchanged over the coldness of the Internet. While, life places pitfalls and obstacles to one's happiness before you......I feel truly blessed in being able to experience the shear beauty and depth of a truly alluring and desirable woman. All I find to ask myself is why have I been so blessed? Why have I been granted such a gift? The Gods have truly smiled upon me in allowing me the pleasure to get to know a true Angel.
Who says that one cannot find beauty, charm and grace in the coldness of the impersonal world of the computer....
I have just voted an a mumm left by a young lady in sort of a dilemma. It seems that the age old problem with Marriage and being faithful has again reared it's ugly head. Let me lay thin out so that there is no misunderstanding. If you are truly in love with someone......and happy in your relationship.....infidelity is never an option that will come up. Being that we as creatures are only human, temptation is always something that you must deal with. Yet, if you and your other half are really truly in love and in a real relationship......the desire to cheat will never play out to reality. I can say this after just having been through a divorce after 24 years. A midlife crisis can and does strike the woman, enough said! If your other half has been unfaithful in our relationship, there is only but two courses of action you can take. Either let it pass and play like it didn't happen, forgive (of course it will happen again!), or dump their cheating ass! You have to think more of yourself than to allow the cheating half of your relationship to play the old head games and make it all your fault. Stand up and make a stand! No one should get dumped on and take it! If love is true........cheating is not an option!
You know, after sitting here and watching the waves of people scroll by, I was struck with a thought. Wouldn't be great if all you had to do to make new friends was to simply point and click. Just think, you wouldn't have to worry about being embarrassed....the stinging pain of rejection is calmly dulled by the coldness of this Cyber reality. It seems that tis way of meeting new people does take the fun out of trial and error.
This may be the rambling of a silly old man with apparently too much time on his hands, but venting crazy notions I guess provides it's own theraputic release. Hopefully, once you make the cyber connections.....just maybe you can end up with really good friends.
Take the time to read my page......and, if you don't mind maybe gaze at the various other Blog posts I have made. I would like to see that I am not simply wasting my time sharing feelings and ideas that are not appreciated.
Thank you for your time!
Here I am again mezmorized by all the various people forever scrolling by on my monitor. So many different people.....so many different stories to tell. Watch as all the beautiul women pass by right before my eyes. The biggest shame is that most will never know that you exist. Most will never take the time to stop and get to know you. In this cyber-world....each and every person is on for the most part, a level playing field. You never really know who someone is......you never know just how honest a person is. It is more akin to gambling that any other sport....yet the effects of the possible contact with a total stranger makes the time here as intoxicating as any liquor or illegal drug!
Take the time to stop and get to know someone....you never know if your missing the chance to make a lifelong friend, have a close relationship or even just find someone to talk to. Take a chance and see!!!
You know that each evening......while watching the people scroll by......I am left with the notion; What do people really think when they look at your profile? I know that most times, people casually rate them.....and quickly scroll through the various photos. Then comes the real question.......What do they think.........not just think but, really think about what they have seen. It is hard to get a real sense of what someone is about or what they look like by simply taking a few fleeting seconds and looking at the tings that are posted. In a way, what people post should reflect their personality and in essence the soul of that person. What about that those people who just straight forwardly put photos on.....no real gimicks...no flashy blingy stuff....just them. Do you look down on them because they are not so creative? I have looked at hundreds of sites........and yes I have actually read through each and every one of them.........I guess that makes me either a really boring guy..........or I actually care about trying to get a sense of the person I am looking at. So, what do you think? Next time you see someone new.....take the time to really look at them and their site. Let me know what you think!
When an older man takes leave of his senses and forsakes all to be with a younger woman........you know the old cliche's regarding a mid-life crisis, buying a sporty car, trying to look younger.....I'm sure the list goes on for eternity. Why is it that when a man does this, he is perceived as some douche bag for giving up all to chase the dream of remaining forever young. When a woman does this, Ohhhhhhh, I guess she was unhappy! She was not appreciated.......it is played off! When your spouse decides to throw away a marriage of many years in a vain attempt to recapture her glory days, she is not stigmatized for her dalliances. Apparently double standards go for both sexes.........and yes my friends, a woman can have a midlife crisis too! It hurts just as bad when you are the other party!
My two cents worth!
How many times have you heard the old saying....All's fair in love and war. The more you become involved with someone in a relationship.....the more that saying rings true. That may not be true for many........but, it seems as if I can attest to the truth of this....as far as marriages go. Is it that you become comfortable with your partner, then when things begin to go south......comfort turns into an all out battle royale! I guess in my case, being a nice uy always backfires and ends up bitting you on the backside! Maybe someday I will learn........Is that possible for a man?
Sitting back each night and watching the endless stream of faces streak by my monitor, I am both mystified and awestruck that so many people are a part of this endeavor. So many different names, faces......each with a story to share. Take a few moments and sit...watch as the faces scroll ever moving, from right to left. Take the time to look and really read the stories, the blog postings and information posted by each nad every one who slides so easily along the top of your monitor. You might even learn a little about your fellow Fu patrons..........It never hurts to learn!
I recently attended a High School reunion here in Texas. While I overjoyed to rekindle friendships from my past.....I, after talking to a great many of the alumni realized a startling fact. The vast majority of the people attending that function were, are now or have been divorced. Several more than once. Out of 100 or so couples........not but only 5 had been married for any real time at all. What does this say about the state of marriage in this country? I myself are recently divorced after 24 years of marriage. Statistics be damned.......there is a real problem in this country. Marriage just is not what it used to be......not at all! A frightening thought when looking over our history and society in general. It only proves what many have said.......the decay of society is even more profound that I had ever imagined.
I guess I long for the good old days.........there is no longer any room for an old-fashioned man in todays society and that is a crying shame!
