Ok, first off, if you are reading this, don't get offened. This is not directed towards anyone person. This is just a few of my thoughs that I had while at work last night.
First of all does anyone truly understand men or women? I for one don't. For some reason men are known to be complete and total dogs. They like to play around with other people's feelings and in the end who do they really end up hurting? Only themselves really. That is why you see so many men these days that are in their late 30s early 40s and still single, or they have been divorced like 4 times. I mean, come on guys, at some point and time, its time to grow up and stop acting like you are in high school. IF you are interested in a woman, then be honest with her. For one this is chat. It isn't real life, its only a program where you can get to know someone easier then at a noisy bar. If you are talking to one woman, don't lie to her and tell her she is the only one you are tlaking to. Do you really think she believes that? When she finds out the truth and starts bashing you, is it because you were talking to several other women? No, the simple fact is, she is going to bash you and hate your guts for one simple reason.....YOU LIED TO HER. IF you are going to lie to her on a stupid chat program, what are you going to do when you are face to face. Relationships start with trust. If both parties don't have that from the beginning, then there will never be a true relationship.
Women, no offense, but you are not any better. You all claim to want the same thing. A man that will listen to you, be there for you, bring you flowers for no reason, call you late at night just to say hello, and most importantly, be honest with you. Now this is where I am confused because either some of you are just saying all that because it sounds good or some of you are totally blind. I mean if a good guy is standing right in front of you, why are you going to pass him up? A lot of women I have found are still attracted to the "bad boys." Well "bad boys" is an old school term, we have a better term for them today, its called players. You remember the type, was always doing things that were crazy and wild? Yeah, thats all fine and good when your in high school, but ladies, sometimes you have to grow up as well. Sometimes you try to hard to find Mr. Right, when the truth is, there isn;t such a thing. No man is perfect. When yoou meet a man, chances are he is going to screw up. No matter how many times he has been in a relationship, been married, whatever, he is not perfect to fit your needs. You need to take the time and smooth out the rough edges. And also, give us a freakin glue. Don't sit there and lead a guy on. That is just as bad as what players do. If you are not interested in a guy for anything other than a friend, let him know, be up front and honest. Don't dodge the subject. If you are not upfront and honest with them, then you may loose something more important, a good friend.
Anyways, I think I have gone on long enough. If yoou have made it this far, please rate and comment the blog. Tell me you agree, tell me I'm an a hole, but feel free to express your opinion.
