1746046's blog: "understanding openness"

can someone please tell me why good guys always finish last? for the life of me a can't figure it out, hell i've even lost some decent girls to a couple of major a-holes and they're still together. i hear about all the problems they're having and how they should of never left, but they stay with these a-holes. why? do i need to become an a-hole? i just don't get it.

i'm trying to understand when people say they are open minded. almost everyone i've met that has admitted to being open minded has had more traits of being judgemental. i consider openmindedness ( if that's even a word ) allowing something to have a better chance, allowing yourself to see something more for what it is instead of what it should be. reading it between the lines, more than surface value.