to u mothers out there let me 1st say that i would never condone any man not being a part of their child's/children's life. as far as i'm concerned it's unacceptable behavior no matter the circumstance. i have hands on experience concerning this situation. right now i'm raising my nephews becuz of my brothers neglect for his own children. at the same time i wanna talk to those particular ladies that do everything in their power to make it hard for those men that want to be a part of their kid's lives. i'm in a situation now we'reim paying child support on my own accord for not only my son but my step children as well. i also pay school fees, buy clothes, and any other time they need anything i do whatever im capable of doing to provide for that need. now i'm not at all saying that all the fathers are out there doing those same kind of things, but for those that are or even those that are making a valiant effort don't keep these guys away from their kids. Those kids need the both of u no matter how u feel or what you've been told.
