my boyfriend and my daughter had a falling out last year and they don't talk to each other, she is willing to talk to him but he won't budge. He wont talk to her, be in the same room as her and won't even come over if she is here. Some times I hate to be in the middle of them cause I love them both so much that I wish they would make up. But he is so stubborn and holds such a grudge that I have to choose who I want to spend my time with. I know that blood is thicker than water and I love them both so much . So I have to choose who to spend the time with. Of course it will be my daughter but love spending time with him to, and when she is not here then he will come over, but if she is here I don't get to see him cause he will not come over. I love spending the time with my daughter, so I do. But almost lost my daughter cause I was spending so much time with him and not her. So all I got to say is how can you love two people so much and have to stay in the middle of both to be there for them.