I was looking through some old files on the computer and decided to repost some here for the benefit of those who read here. These works are not by me and the authors are credited at the end. Also i dont agree with every tip but most of them are good.
Tips for Slaves
· Never, never lie to your Master, even about the smallest things. The first time you lie makes the second time easier, and before you know it, nothing will be real anymore. Work diligently on prescribed chores. Don't cut corners. Don't expect thanks or pat yourself on the back for fulfilling your obligations.
· Never complain about your Master to someone else (you will be ashamed of yourself for having done so in the long run.) Learn to pick up after your Master as you do yourself. Learn to pick up after yourself if you need to.) Ask for His advice. Then take it. If you don't feel He is better at making most decisions, why is He your Master?
· Ask Him for reassurance when you need it. Unless there is a fire, don't interrupt your Master when He speaks Offer your opinions courteously, and only if you are allowed to offer them. (Always remember what a privilege it is to be allowed to speak at all.)
· Acknowledge your mistakes and thank your Master for caring enough to point them out. When approaching your Master, wait patiently in a submissive pose for Him to acknowledge you. Once He has made a decision, do not beg or whine, but carry out His wishes.
· When your Master speaks, focus all attention on Him. Don't look around, look at your fingernails, watch TV, etc. Never manipulate your Master into awkward positions :
· Instead of asking, "Do I look good?" ask, "Does this look please You, Sir, or would You prefer________?" Narrow down His preferences without seeking flattery. If you feel you need it, ask your Master for extra training in specific areas. A good Master will be pleased that you are putting forth effort.
· Never ask your Master to punish you. A slave has no place determining what actions are punishable, and by asking, you are diminishing the effect it is meant to have on you. Learn when you have said enough. Then shut up.
· Don't smother your Master. Allow Him the space and freedom His authority deserves. If He compliments you on something you've done - do it the same way the next time. If He comments favorably on your make-up or dress, use the same technique next time.
· Serve without drawing attention to yourself. The ashtray doesn't need to be emptied every time it's used (unless, of course, your Master demands it); not every string needs to be picked up from the floor. Never behave in such a way that your Master is assaulted by your service.
· Don't nag. If there are things He needs to know about, tell Him once. If He is a busy man who tends to forget, purchase a small whiteboard for the refrigerator and make a list.
· In public, you are still responsible for His needs. If He needs a refill on His drink, get it for Him, etc. Retrieve dropped silverware or napkins. Never sit if your Master is standing. Unless He tells you otherwise, walk a couple paces behind Him and to His side. Do not set the pace; if He walks quickly, learn to keep up.
· Offer to open doors for Him. Always, always, always, defer to Him in public, even if you are in complete disagreement. Save your concerns for later, when the two of you are alone.
· Ask for permission to engage in free time activities. Train yourself to finish the tasks He has given you before approaching Him for free time. Accept and rely on His advice about your personal growth, your physical health and your appearance. His comments reflect His desires, not your failures. Remember you exist to please Him - no one else.
· Never intrude on His privacy. If spaces are off limits to you, do not disturb them, and more, do not ask prying questions about them. You may be on a "need to know" basis in your Master's life. (I know from personal experience that once you have crossed that line, you will have to earn His trust again.) On the other hand, make every effort to keep nothing private from Him. There should be nothing about your life, your finances, your emotional states, your medical condition, or your past that He doesn't have access to if He wants it. You are HIS property. Everything about you belongs entirely to Him.
· Find ways to retain "slave space." Journal, fantasize, or do whatever it takes to retain a submissive and docile attitude. Try speaking to your Master in the third person (i.e. "This slave wishes to _____," etc.) It's hard to be arrogant when speaking of yourself as a slave.
· Offer Him reassurance if He needs it. Just like you, your Master is human and may need occasional support. Remember that you have no more authority because He is ill or incapacitated. You are slave regardless of His emotional state or His health.
· Never say "no" to your Master. At most, use a phrase like, "This slave would prefer not to, but will gladly defer to her Master's will." (Of course you can be less formal, too.) Master gets the metaphoric "remote." (As well as the real one.)
· Your Master's meal should be served before your own. Do not begin eating until your Master has begun. Turn your Master's bed down at night. Ask permission to sleep in His bed, unless your arrangements do not allow it. If you are in your Master's bed, do not leave it without His permission or His prior command.
· Always be clean Never believe that you are through with training. You aren't that good. If you don't understand, ask. Remember that your submission is no more a "gift" to Him than His domination is a "gift" to you. You are two parts of a whole. In public, make certain your pride and loyalty in your Master cannot be questioned. Be prepared for anything. Take responsibility for disciplining yourself in the areas you can. Don't make your Master's job harder. Learn to move gracefully and attractively. Don't be afraid to ask your Master for His advice in the area of norm.
· Don't try to manipulate with tears. If a fair and reasonable punishment or reprimand makes you cry, it's often healthy and cleansing. Expect your Master to make occasional mistakes, just as you do. Never, ever berate Him for them.
· Always be willing to learn new things: erotic dance, massage, etc. Use them to serve your Master's needs Create an environment that your Master wants to be in. His home should be calm and clean - His slaves should be pleasant and agreeable. Watch your language. Learn how to express yourself without swearing. It's unattractive.
· If your Master feels like the King of His world, keep doing whatever it is you're doing.
-by yielding, slave to Master Stern
