Desire Divine GreeterSDL Skinny Dipping ...'s blog: "Thoughts on vows"

I recently posted a mumm, in which I posted the wedding vows I had written for a friend, and it generated alot of feedback. Now first of all I would like to thank everyone who voted and commented on them for better or worse (Pardon the pun). I greatly appreciated the votes and thoughts as they did give me lot to think about and I took all of your opinions into consideration. What I have come to is this, I wrote those based on two things one being the way my friend said he felt about her and the other being the way I felt about the last woman I truly did love. So through the melding of both I was able to give voice to some feelings I thought long since dead within myself and newly awakened within my friend. Now sincerity I have concluded does not come from the words spoken or written but from the sentiment behind the speaker therefore I feel that if my friend can read them and speak them and they translate the depth of his love that he cannot express himself then they are as truly his as is possible. I also say that if the origin of the prose is such a big deal to his mate that it overcomes his sentiment then maybe she ought to examine herself and not cast apersions on his character for cyncism is the true killer of sentiment. See I asked him how he would feel if someone wrote her vows and he told me she wrote hers but then had them revised by her sister (Who so happens to be Rhodes Scholar) so he did not want to sound inherently stupid by as I mentioned comparing her to football. But the point i moot he has told her and she is not upset and to the contrary can't wait to hear them as she is a fan of my poetry.

Now to those of you who seem to reside in a world where love is deemed to be doomed from the start I say love is never doomed to fail it is only fated to stumble and if in those times you can find the strength to pick it up and dust it off then you will find that it is truly one real unexpainable wonder left to us!!

Lastly to those of you who question my literary honesty know that I wrote everything I ever posted and if you doubt me google what you see!!