I am hoping SOMEONR reads this so maybe they will get thier head out of thier ass and do something before they lose a very important person in thier life.
It takes 5 minutes to draw a pic, buy a post card or even to just write i love and miss on a piece of paper...put it in an evelope and mail it to your son to show him you care.
Out of sight...out of mind? Not on this end cuz theres an 11 yr old boy who feels his dad choose someone over him and just left him, he feels his dad does not care about him anymore. These are his thoughts and his words..I cant make up excuses anymore not because I dont want to but because this child tells me to stop making excuses. The child did try to call his father 6 times and got a busy signal. He also called him on father's day and his dad was half asleep and did not even make an effort to wake up all the way and talk to his son so when the son hung up he went outside and broke some cars which was his way of showing his hurt. His father cant call out but Im sure theres a payphone or a friend with a cell phone around somewhere to where this father might call his son just to say I do love you and I do miss you and I finally have a job so I will come see you really soon or I will get you some cool school clothes and mail you a package cuz I know you love getting mail and I will send it by UPS cuz I know how much you love getting packages just for you and brought by the "box truck" like you used to call it when you were younger.
The non child support hurts cuz his son goes without things that the child support was paying for cuz the money is sent for the child and it gets spent on the child whether it be food, clothes or even a special toy or a game every week like he used to get when the child support came but its not as important..whats important is this child feels like he is unloved and that his father does not care and the damage of his father destroying a relationship that once gone he may never be able to get back is very sad.
