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So here is my story.  I moved to Arizona to start the next chapter in my life.  I am really excited to be here, but am a little lost.  Not sure what is in store for me.  Had a pretty good life in South Carolina, but was never really happy there.  Now here I am, no car, no friends, no job (I am disabled) and nothing to do.  I know God has a reason he made it possible for me to move here.  I just wish I knew what it was.  I am going a little stir crazy.  Love the peace and quiet, but sometimes we all need a little excitement.  I could get a bus pass like a friend recommended, but not sure where the bus routes take you and where to get them.  Guess I could call a Taxi and get around that way, but I feel that I might as well stay home, if I am going to be by myself anyway.  I just need to learn to be more patient, I guess.  Any suggestions are welcome.  I am just having a pitty party for myself.  Maybe I shouldn't even post this.  I think it helps though to get it out.  Thanks to all who are taking the time to read this.  I will be ok though, so don't you worry about me. 

Just wanted to share

Got this poem in an email today and just wanted to share it with my Fu Friends.  I know it's not what a lot of people like to hear, but I think it's worth the time to read it. 

Whatever your cross, whatever your pain, there will always be sunshine, after the rain. Perhaps you may stumble, perhaps even fall, but God's always ready to answer your call. He knows every heartache, sees every tear, a word from His lips can calm every fear. Your sorrows may linger, throughout the night, but suddenly vanish, by dawn's early light. The Savior is waiting somewhere above to give you His grace and send you His love.

Mermaids and Whales -- Recently, in a large French city, a poster featuring a young, thin and tan woman appeared in the window of a gym. It said:
 
"THIS SUMMER DO YOU WANT TO BE A MERMAID OR A WHALE?"
 
A middle-aged woman, whose physical characteristics did not match those of the woman on the poster, responded publicly to the question posed by the gym.
 
To Whom It May Concern:
 
Whales are always surrounded by friends (dolphins, sea lions, curious humans). They have an active sex life, they get pregnant and have adorable baby whales. They have a wonderful time with dolphins stuffing themselves with shrimp. They play and swim in the seas, seeing wonderful places like Patagonia and the coral reefs of Polynesia.
 
Whales are wonderful singers and have even recorded CDs. They are incredible creatures and virtually have no predators other than humans. They are loved, protected and admired by almost everyone in the world.
 
Mermaids don't exist. If they did exist, they would be lining up outside the offices of psychoanalysts due to identity crisis.. Fish or human?
 
They don't have a sex life because they kill men who get close to them. Therefore they do not have kids either. Not to mention, who wants to get close to a girl who smells like a fish store?
 
The choice is perfectly clear to me; I'd rather be a whale.
 
P.S. We are in an age when media puts into our heads the idea that only skinny people are beautiful, but I prefer to enjoy an ice cream with my grandkids, a good dinner with my husband and a coffee/lunch with my friends.
 
With time we gain weight because we accumulate so much information and wisdom in our heads that when there is no more room it distributes out to the rest of our bodies. So we aren't heavy, we are enormously cultured, educated and happy.

Beginning today, when I look at my butt in the mirror I will think, Good gosh, look how smart I am.

THIS MADE MY DAY!!!

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My Dream

Ok, not sure where to start, but here it goes.  I have been wanting to move to Arizona for quite some time, but something always held me up.  I was in a relationship at the time and put the individuals needs before mine, hence his Mom and Dad are elderly and he needed to stay just in case something happened to them, or his job and wanting to stay until he had his retirement, etc.  Now we are no longer together and I put off my plans for years and am ready to start a new life.  Here is my delema...I have a house full of furniture and belongings that need to be packed and shipped or moved.  I have been checking into all options and realized yesterday that no matter which option I choose, it will be too expensive to take my things with me.  So I only have a few options left.  I can move to AZ without my things, put them in storage or sell them and rent a furnished apartment.  I can stay in SC until I save enough money to take the furniture with me.  I can keep paying my portion of the rent here, move to AZ and keep my things in the house (I share the house with a roommate).  I could really use some suggestions or guidance in this matter.  Ultimately what I want is to go to Phoenix as soon as possible and come up with an idea that works best for me.  I really could use your help in this matter and will listen to all suggestions you have.  Thank you for listening.

Pictures

I have added a bunch of new pictures to my site, since my friend Kat1114 gave me a VIP for the month. Don't be shy and come and rate them. I would love to get my overall rating up from a 10.07 to something higher. It's been there forever...lol So if you can and would like, please rate them 11s....wish I could afford a Auto 11 to get it done myself....Help a friend if you can. Hugs, Wild Angel

My best friend

Ok, here's my story. I have and been in love with this guy that I was dating, engaged to, and then turned into friendship, except I don't get the cuddly, love, love to spend time with you kind of feeling. He is a party boy. Never the less, I love him, what should I do, keep him as a best friend or try to make the relationship work? I am so confused and drunk. amd I guess that doesn't help. My son and daughter in law love him and think he is the best thing that ever happened to me since my divorce. I could use some help with this one.
To all my dear friends, I won't be on much because my motherboard is messed up and I can't afford another computer right now. Only on when I am at my friends house. I have not left you and you can still rate and fan me as well as ask for my friendship. I will be back as soon as I can. I am going to miss you all lots. Hugs and kisses, Trish

Fu Marriage

My best friend and I want to do the Fubar Marriage and need some assistance. How and where do I go to propose to him and go through the ceremony. Can anyone help me out there. Thanks in advance for reading my blog. I love and care for all my friends here on Fubar and think they are the greatest. Please help. Hugs and Kisses, Wild Angel

How do I?

I would like to change my background and layout. How do I do that. I can't find the area I need to go to to make the changes. Anyone have the answers? Please let me know. Thank you. Hugs, Wild Angel
I was married for 27 years and got divorced because my ex had an affair and then I found out he got her pregnant. So I closed myself off and put up a wall. Then I met this gorgeous, sexy, fun and great guy and slowly let my wall down. We lived together and were engaged. Yesterday he told me that he loved me as a friend, but wasn't in love with me anymore, because he couldn't deal with the fact that I was having some hard times with my son and his family and my ex and that I was always depressed and no fun. So I moved out last night. He showed absolutely no emotion about me leaving and almost seemed happy I was going. I always thought that if somebody loved you, they would go through good and bad times with you and not stop loving you. I guess I was wrong. I cried my eyes out all the way to my sister's house and woke up hurting more than I thought I would ever hurt about anyone. Why is it that men just move on and women take this all to heart and it breaks? I am getting to old to do this anymore and need to face the fact that I am going to be alone forever. It's really hard to trust anyone again. Sorry, but I just needed to get this off my chest. I truly wish that we could have talked and compromised about the issues we had and maybe worked things out. He didn't want to do that. So here I am, on my own, my kids live in PA and I don't see them often and am living with a broken heart. Not sure where to go from here....
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