Over 16,532,382 people are on fubar.
What are you waiting for?

Lady shadow's blog: "thinking"

created on 05/01/2010  |  http://fubar.com/thinking/b331951

Mendinfg the fences

Mending The Fences
There comes a time in all our lives that we begin to mend the fences that once was broken by someone near and dear to your heart. Sometimes we start to fight over this or that and soon your bound with then begin to fall apart. Your words become mean and hurtful and you start to realize something needs fixing between you and them.
You think to yourself where in the world do we start to mend the fences that is broken between you and them. Do you tell them face to face what you are feeling? or Do you keep it locked deep inside and keep pretending that everything is okay. You go on pretending that your heart is not breaking from the words which they have spoken.
Do you hide your tears from them? or Do you let me see how much their words hurt you. Sometimes when you or them start to mend the fences it is not easy on you or them but mending the fence needs to begin to put your heart at ezzz. So you can start all over from the beginning.
You have some many questions and not enough answers about where the fence really began falling apart. You go on day after day pondering what did this person do to you or you did to them that started these fences crumbling down around you and them. Was it in your past or is it in the present that those fences that are broken became such a mess that you hurt them or they hurt you. Then what can we do to avoid it happening again.
So once you find all the answers to all your questions that is when the real healing can begin. That is also when you can really begin to mend these fences that once was broken my someone near and dear to you heart and have a great way to start the next day. We have to begin somewhere why not start from the very beginning.

Friends and Ture Friends

Well I have been on really about 3 years now and have made alot of friends and I have True friends. Yes I know most of them are online but either or if you are online or off line we all have people we call friends and we also have true friends. A true friend knows your past and is in your present when you need them, not just when they need you. They love you despite your faults and support you always. This is what a true friend is as you read this you will see that I am not trying to be mean or anything but only the true friends are the ones you count on the most. Even as a friend we all can hang out and get to know each other and have fun. But pepole come and go in our lives and those who stay though think and thin are the ones you can call a down right true friend. Some friends can turn into family and family can turn into friends but it their choose. We can not choose our really family but we can pick and choose the friends we tend to call family. As most of you might not know but I am mssassyangel and I have a really good friend on here and I wounder and worry about her often and she is my sis you know who you are and no matter where our lives make take us I will always be one of your true friend no matter what you say or do that will not change that is who I am. Well also want to say I like being around all my friends to. I am one in a million and you can always count on me when you need a hand  i will do my damist to help you though whatever it is. You can always count on me and that is a proven fact ask Dawn she can tell you herself I want you all to that Dawn is an awsome person and you can count on her if you need her. I know I can.

Life

Well life sometime take unexpected turns you can either go with the flow or run away from it. My life is on a path that I really wish I know whre it was going and sometimes I am glad I have no idea where it will go. All I know is I can either run form it or face it. Yes at times I want to run and other times I am glad I have not. I know that whatever I do or say can and will be either heard or ingoned. Well anyways some of you probbly have no idea what i am talking about and tjhat is okay and others well I sure you do or might.

Have you ever thought about what is your perpose in life and where you life maybe going or should be going. I have thought about it alot I really don't know where my life  is going or if it is going anywhere at all. I know we all have a perpose but what it is nobody knows. I maybe new here on fubar but I am not new to being a person trying to figure things out. I dont have alot of friends and I may not have alot of money but I know my life is on a path and I just dont know what that path is. All I know is I been thinking jsut what is my perpose in life and why am even here. Have anyone elas asked yourself that qestion? I know i do all the time. When things do go our way we might find away to exscape from it  but do we really exscape from it? No it will still be there in the morning. Our lifes are what we make them and what we want out of them just dont come we have to work towareds what we want. I not sure if anyone really read these things but oh well if not. I know a friend who is going though something but all she wants to to exsacpe from it and hurt herself I feel for her and I want to help her but i cannot help someone who dont care about themselves. I know how hard it must be but all i can sy is just dont give up or give in try and try again.

last post
5 years ago
posts
4
views
1,188
can view
everyone
can comment
everyone
atom/rss

other blogs by this author

 13 years ago
Family
official fubar blogs
 8 years ago
fubar news by babyjesus  
 13 years ago
fubar.com ideas! by babyjesus  
 10 years ago
fubar'd Official Wishli... by SCRAPPER  
 11 years ago
Word of Esix by esixfiddy  

discover blogs on fubar

blog.php' rendered in 0.0505 seconds on machine '191'.