Wash each other's body before exchanging (any) amounts of energy, at the very least, wash each other's hands before speaking !!! This will bring an individual to the present moment. People are often in walking comas...Typically, the mind is stuck in past or future pictures of this or that...
Then prepare food together then feed each other when ever you choose is Good. Why not?
The sexiest attribute about a Man; is discipline in his life. Serious! Eye contact, taking effortless actions to improve the woman's space(even the smallest suggestion); but always sincere actions...a voice of guidance as necessary...self-control in the presence of other women, protection by standing to her left, support by rubbing your hand down her back, your heart in private space, be honest so she has a choice about your state of existence. Among exchanges exercising and healthy decisions will keep you both alive...working outdoors together on common interests...
I met this yummy Man at a football game;) He was floored while biting his tongue with a HUGE smile...I stated with a Southern accent, "Either I've died and gone to Heaven or I'm alive and looking at an Angel ;) I realized, Men need to be verbally uplifted too; they need to feel needed...they need to feel adored too..they need to know their voice is respected. They need to feel their sex appeal among their partner in dark nights...
A Man can keep a Woman uplifted by physically lifting her, waking her up with kissing while dressing her, bath her, and hunt for food...THEN request whatever you need---loving, rub on an aching body part, nurture your children, prepare favorite foods, space to play with your buddies, space to hunt; whatever you'd like to experience...
jokes, smiling, laughter, and emotional expressions are sexy too...
a sign of a sound individual...
Trust your opposite when (you Trust) your decisions...
IF not; either a dark virtual life while digging your grave or a lonely life to complete...pick-one? Only one answer is Truth...
no regrets, no resentments...maybe a little change is needed...What do you honor? Who are your idols? How is that working for you? Are you on the list of your idols?
People that watch porn-type (ill)ustrations are never present...Why? Your mind is stuck in picture(s)...having NOthing to do with the opposite you face. That's why you often feel like shit...No worries; Trust me; your partner feels like shit too...your connection is based on an (ill)usion...
If you take in dirt; you blow dirt into the AIR at rapid speeds to those among your space...
You may keep any answers to yourself...
Respectfully written...to keep you alive...
