lol I was oblivious to his charade. 'Til he started accusing me of cheating and TomN got very abusive to me and my pets, & acting very strangeley. Soon enough i caught my snap and grew increasingly suspicious. and did some investigating of my own. The shit I found out about this 'man of integrity' made my blood hot and my skin crawl. 2 years later I still haven't recovered from the trama he put on me. Yet he continues to move on witha big smile on his face , free and happy . He doesn't work. On social security. So he has plenty of time to flirt on the web when his wife is at work. I'm a little messed up but I still work. Thanx for listening. Pamela