La Bella Morte's blog: "Wrinkle In Time"

This is the first of many blog entries. There is going to be a whole series of these.

I am the type of person that people come to with relationship problems. Probably because I am a straight-forward person with a realistic outlook on things.

I decided to put together a composite of different situations that males often find themselves in and later wonder what they did wrong. (By no means am I saying this about all males.)

We know you have a past.

We know you have a past so do we but unless we ask. We don't want to hear about it! A problem that I see happen constantly is men open their mouths about stuff they had done with past females. Its nothing personal honestly but you have to think about it this way. Do you really want to hear about how good your girlfriends ex fucked her? (I know there are some kinky bastards who actually get off on this; but chances are you are not one of those people). Leave the past in the past if you want a future with this person. Females, chances are he is not trying to compare you with these women of his past. Sometimes people just don't know when to shut up. (this goes for both sexes!) People tend to get to butthurt over small things. So, males next time you want to brag about how many times you got your ex-girlfriend off in one night. Stop and try saying something like "Lets see how many times I can get you off tonight!".