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Of all blogs, this is the hardest I have ever had to write. As of 9:28 am this morning my Soldier husband, text me and told me that for 2 months he has been lieing to me about loving me, and he really doesnt. For months he made love to me when I visited, and tried to even get me pregnant.For two weeks he rarely called, and I finally said what is wrong..this is his response...
"I have an emotional problem"
me " in a marriage it takes two to work as a union, so what is your problem, we can fix it"
him " that is my problem"
me "Our marriage is your problem"
him "yes for 2 months I have not loved you and have been fronting everything. I don't know what to do."
me " you are telling me this over a text"
him " i dont feel how i used to"
then came the call, the one we all dread when you are married for life. He said, I dont love you, I don't care about your son. I am not supporting you I am taking you off my bank account and ending this.
i hung up
he text me from a friends phone....
i said
"i will give you what you want i cant make you love me, but you have used me for the whole marriage"
him " i am taking you off the bank account and you will have nothing from me"
Two days ago my husband told me how wonderful I am. For over 2 years I have waited by a phone just for 30 mins for a call. He has sent me nothing over the time we have been married. On valentine's day, i got nothing. On Mother's day nothing. Birthday, nothing. When I was with him he loved me more than life, I left 2 weeks ago to see my son off for the summer...now I get this..and the whole time..he was trying to get me pregnant.
This is what I have to look forward to. Me being faithful..My job is an Army wife..it always was..and i was a damn good one. He is stupid for letting me go..and believe me..I'm sure some other Soldier or Marine would love for me to wait on their calls...and I am hoping that someone on fu will be that guy, because I need a real one. A real man..I am done with this bullshit.
I got an I want a divorce over a text.
