I used to blog on myspace alot! This is a copy of one of my own blogs I hope you like it!
Okay today I chose to talk about Orgasms. Probably because I have many things that rev my engine. I mean I have lots of friends who say they have never had an orgasm. WHAT!! HOW?? I mean it is so easy. Just let yourself go and enjoy someone ravishing your body taking time to explore your every curve. I firmly believe the art to a good orgasm is to know your own body. So as I am talking with my friends I just blurt out. "Do you masturbate?" And my friend gives me a disgusted look and says NO WAY!
Orgasm: The peak of sexual excitement characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and by a series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals, usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen by the male. Also, called climax, a similar point of intensity of emotional excitement.
Climax: The point of greatest intensity or force in an ascending series or progression; a Culmination.
What happens in a woman's body during a climax is very like what happens in the male body when you ejaculate. In other words, there's a feeling of increasing excitement, building up to a point where everything 'blows' in a great blast of ecstasy. This 'orgasmic moment' is characterized by surges of contractions in the sex organs, occurring almost every 0.8 seconds. The other big difference between male and female orgasm is this: after the first climax, many women can 'come' again, often within a minute or two. YES!! Lucky us!! But first we need to teach those who can't even have one orgasm how.
Female orgasm isn't a push-button response. The conditions have to be right. Although females vary, many women need the following if they're going to reach a climax:
In summary, here's what to do if you want to bring your partner to orgasm regularly:
Don't be in a rush.
Don't be too demanding - it's not an Olympic event.
Talk to your partner, and ask her what she wants you to do to her.
Always create a romantic atmosphere.
Make sure that everything is comfortable and nice for her.
Give her lots of kisses and cuddles before you even think about making any approach to her sexual area.
When you do start to stroke, rub or kiss her genitals, don't rush into 'attacking' her clitoris. Take things gently, and see what she wants.
Use her own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris.
Remember that stimulation of the clitoris is the key to female orgasm.
Sometimes encourage her to run your sex sessions. You can learn a lot by watching how she stimulates herself or by really listening to her when she suggests a sex position, or a particular caress.
Always pay attention to the clitoris even while penetrating rub it flick it lick it whatever is necessary just show it a lot of attention.
Personally the biggest and most important part of the woman's orgasm is the knowledge of the clitoris. This may seem obvious, but many women, even today, feel very inhibited about self-love and can't help feeling that it isn't something they should be doing. But the fact is, masturbating helps you to learn just exactly which pressures and rhythms you need in order to bring you to orgasm. In particular, you need to explore your own body in order to find out precisely how to stimulate your clitoris.
My first multi orgasm was because my lover paid attention to all parts of my body, if you know what I mean. Tickled and teased me so I married that man! So maybe you learned something or maybe you didn't but it was fun writing it anyways! I love to hear your comments!
