F= Flattery - the fastest way to a guys or a girls heart is to find something you really like about them and then compliment them on it. just dont go over board and make sure your compliments come from the heart.
L= Listen - get him or her to talk about what he or she really cares about and listen attentively. Bottom line: give him or her your attention, and you'll get there's.
I= Interest - find a common interest. similarities give you something to do together and talk about - and it can fire up a relationship.
R= Responsible - be careful and clear about youe intentions. don't hurt anyone, lead anyone on, or choose targets that are off limits.
T= Trusting yourself - believe that you can catch his or her eye and survive the process no matter what happens.