I am a 40 year old BBW un-collared sub, mother of 7 and grandmother of two and a third due in April..

I am the youngest of five and grew up in Lower Michigan and moved to Northern Indiana about 17 years ago. I am mostly Liberal and yes I recycle. lol

I am hoping this will prevent me from having to answer the same questions repeatedly Notice my use of the word hoping...as I know most here seem to be illiterate or just plane lazy.

I am into camping and hiking, dinners out and movies, theater and concerts, museums and travel.

I am frugal yet like nice things, and I love interior decorating.

I am married to a vanilla who is ok with my lifestyle and all that it brings me.

I love making friends, chatting and even flirting to a point; add me as a friend if you want to.

I have a fondness for tattoos (I have 11 and want more) and piercings I have 3and anyone who tells you that it doesn’t hurt AT ALL is lying. Having a needle pushed through your flesh of has a little bite to it, ok my belly didn’t hurt until after it got ripped. OUCH. lol.

Would I do it again? HELL YES!! I would rather tattoo my eyelid than stub my toe pierce my hood than to have a migraine however, hmm...maybe I should tattoo my toe. and pierce my?.. .lol wait I did lol

I love to swap stories, I love to write and also I swap pics, if you behave, and are nice and respectful!

I am into BD/sm, I am a submissive and I love the idea of offering myself in a total physical, emotional and mental manner to the one whom I love, respect and trust. It took me a long time to find the right Dom but I believe that I finally have.

Do not lie to me I am not your wife! Do not tell me what you think I want to hear, I am not your girlfriend!

Once again I do not believe in white horses and prince charming,but then real life never ends as good as the book.

I appreciate the sensual things in life; a rose, sweet music and low whispers. I fully believe everyone should dance in the rain whenever they are able. Anyone who doesn’t understand a person who NEEDS to sing in the shower OR even the car irritates me to no end. I need my relationship to include the mushy side of life; I believe that even in BD/sm you can have romance and passion.

Want to see my private pic files, ASK

I do NOT want in your virtual pants and you will NOT be getting in mine. So please keep your cyber hands to yourself. For the record that doesn’t mean try HARDER. You are NOT that "special" person that will get me to lower my standards or break rules or to disrespect myself in anyway! Not ONE of you is worth the disappointment and pain that will be caused in my doing so!

I like to know that someone finds me attractive, but that is not an invitation to be rude and crude.

I treat people like I would like to be treated, with consideration and honesty and generosity. I am a little burnt out on men who want cyber, phone or roll play only.

I am more afraid of not flying, than of falling.
I am more afraid to hide away my feelings than of seeing someone seeing me cry.
I am more afraid to sit in silence than to speak up for myself or the people that I love.
I am more afraid to sit back and watch than to stick up for someone else.
I am more afraid to close my mind than to let in diversity.
I am more afraid of not trying than of failing.
I am more afraid of not thinking than of letting my imagination go sailing.
I am more afraid to settle for less than to keep striving.
I am more afraid of not living, than of dying.
I am more afraid of missing the best part of my life than I ma of feeling emotional pain and strife!

Blessed Be

Angel