STOP FEEDING THE ANIMALS!!!
Look at all our beautiful children we have living here on this earth with us. One thing that makes them so perfect is the innocents of blind faith they walk around with everyday. You can't miss the enormous amount of trust they have with no fear in their hearts at all. It's easy to see. Just look in their eyes and there you will see what was once in all our eyes so long long ago. A world filled with love and endless discoveries. As parents that little bubble that they are in we protect has hard as we can like a bird does over her eggs. Wishing there really was a magical force field we could have protecting it for as long as possible.
Sadly enough life's evils finds a way in and takes their pinches at our kids a little at a time with the passing of each day. Then what you have known but prolonged as hard as you could finally comes. You stare across into the eyes of your little world and suddenly your struck with amazement wondering where had the time gone. Sadness with a little heartbreak attached cause its over hits you hard like a ton of bricks as you say to yourself eyes don't tear up now they are still to young to understand as to why. You baby isn't a baby no longer. Fear. Wow that feeling of fight or flight engulfs you with the amount of speed that electricity has shooting through your body. ??? Did I do it right? ??? This whole parenting thing please God tell me I did it right? ??? The fear as you question yourself hoping you trained them well enough to glide through this world with ease and the morals of selflessness. Live your lives being and treating everyone who comes into your world better then you would want done unto you but with the wisdom to know who to and who not to let into your kind giving world.. It's not something that can be explain. Those eyes you have looked into a thousand times each day has changed. The realities of life now live with inside them. A change that has been taking place for quite some time now but so slowly it goes unnoticed. Then the day comes and a required lesson by life has been given out. Sadly a lesson that is unreachable to the teachers and parents of these kid. Wishing our parent hand book had the tools for this. The lesson that is felt with so much power and intensity that it's heaviness on the heart would be comparable to what it would feel like if your heart was a river and piles of river rocks that hold down the earth dirt from being pushed down the river is felt dead center in the bottom of our hearts. The time has just now came. They are forever now changed and it wasn't a lesson given by you or one you could protect them from no matter how hard you fought in guarding them.
They just found out that the person who they thought they knew and loved as a young adult was not the person they had believed they we're from the first kiss and through out the duration of the courtship. Being deceived and coned for several months while blinded by the hearts of first love. We all know how these little hearts work. They act as a window shade would covering a window. In this case its the eyes that gets the covering keeping them from seeing a person for who they really are. Making this a perfect target for the slime once made a where of their potential victims condition to come on in and have full reins over them. Discovery and realization of the truth drops them to their knees in complete devastation overwhelmed with shock and disbelief over their first encounter with this type of heart break. Violations of what a player/con would bring with them as they are hard at work taking advantage & robing them blind of all they can while they are in their pursuit of what the real motives are.
Deception from someone we care about can level a person faster and harder then a physical blow to the head from a stranger could. This is one lesson we as adults get hit with this over and over again until we wizen up. Some say its makes you stronger each lesson. I'll have to disagree. For me I feel each time one is violated or harmed by someone they viewed as a loved one through tricks and lies or a simple put down to another by a friend it takes a little piece of that person and kills it. There are people out their that live their whole lives doing this to others with no remorse to the destruction it causes people. Some go as far as getting off on the high it brings them in accomplishing this. A twisted feeling of control and power. Power means they are not weak and therefore they are on an equal playing ground with whom ever their circle is. This self deception of self worth continues to need to be fed. With this need it grows bigger and bigger with each attack which then leads to a greater need then the last to be fed.
We stop this feeding by simply taking the control back. If you have been harmed by someone you thought loved you then it wasn't real. They were never a friend or a true lover. Getting angry, pissed off, or crushed over there wrong to you is just simply giving them what they are there trying to get in the first place and thats the power over you. Stand up take control and don't empower them by allowing yourself to be emotionally effected by their actions. Take control over your self and your emotions making the decisions not to feel deeply with any emotion that would come from their wrong. Brush it off and try and reflect and see what you can take from this experience so you will be more equip to dodge these pathetic waist of space parasites so next time someone of this nature comes across your path you'll nail it instantly. Most of all forgiveness to a friend for a mistake is not at all compared to whats being talked about here. When you knowingly take advantage, harm, lie, deceive and all the other million ways people play on others is not a mistake it was a choice. People who chose to harm others no mater how little first of all will never change no matter how much crying a begging they do. Just think as good as they were at lying and doing you wrong thats just as good as they are with their act of regret. They learn that your not going to take them back or forgive them those tears of sorry and regret turn into hatred and anger. Now you the most wonderful person that they had ever met while in the crying act now instantly turns into the worst crap to walk the earth with you being the one who did them wrong. Do not waist your breath or time on something like that. They are just like over sized programs that fill your computer up take unnecessary space and energy.
We get a new start at the sunrise of every new day. We at that time choose who we are going to be and what we are willing to give to others. No one is perfect for perfection is God and I believe their is only one God and hes not as flesh walking the earth with me. Just the same educate and absorb wisdom for your protection. If damage wasn't being done then it wouldn't hurt and no protection would be necessary. It chips a little off each time so put a end to it.
STOP FEEDING THE ANIMALS!!!
