Starting over is always the hardest part. No matter how old you are or at what point in ypour life it hits it is always hard. I have been seperated and then divorced ofr a little over a year now and I am just starting over now. No I didnt do it when we first seperated and I dont know why. But now I am doing it I am facing up to the wrong I did and I am trying to grow up some. I think it is best to just get away from the whole thing and life your own life. I was somehow still in the thought of mind that i was in the family just living in seperate homes . Well that didnt work. I am divorced and I have to be an adult about this i only have to answer to my kids and do right by them. It is hard not having that other part of you around especially when you have been married for as long as we were but it must happen. He is lucky he has a very nice lady who loves him and only wants the best for him . Maybe one day I will find someone as special. Just had to get this off my chest , I am sure there are others out there like me if so give me a shout out.
