I am a very easy going guy, laid back, adventurous and spontaneous. I am always laughing and you'll never see me without a smile! I don't judge people until you give me a reason too. Not very religious but very spiritual. I realize that if I use god as a first resort, I'll never need him as a last. I've been through so much in my life. What a trip it's been so far. Like most people, my heart has been beaten up pretty badly throughout the years by myself and others. Like most people, many of the things that i've chased after in my life have left me feeling empty and unsatisfied...I've been blessed with the gift of desperation...All i want to do is focus on my future, sweeping everything from the past under the rug and moving on with my new life...I figured i would give this site a shot especially being that i dont dont go to bars or clubs nor do i drink so i find it a bit diificult to meet people...I spend most of my free time with my family...my niece and nephews mean the world to me, when im around them i feel like a kid again yet at the same time i really feel my age being they have so much energy...I graduated Hunter Business School for accounting...I know most people cant pic me being an accountant with all my tats..well.....tattoos are my addiction and i can think of alot worse addictions...My tattoos give me a way to express myself without even saying a word and anyways someones opinion of me is none of my business....So yes im totally sober yet im still wild and crazy..lol..im perfectly imperfect ...I truly love life and i believe people are put in eachothers life for a reason...for what reason? who knows and who cares...just go with the flow and let things be...I would like to find that special someone who will be my best friend..my lover..my best friend would be someone who brings out the best in me..I would want to tell someone how i FEEL rather than how i THINK...and yes there is a big difference...I want someone who will be honest...with themselves!!! I consider myself a people person and look forward to hearing from you...

" The great masters of prayer have compared the spiritual life to an ocean.
On the surface life may be roiled by wind and tides. Yet beneath the
surface, even amid a stormy sea, the water is calm. The pursuit of
happiness is anchored in those depths."