Stue P Dassol's blog: "serious stuff"

I am still alive, waiting on some high speed internet, so that is why I am not on here much. It just takes way to damn long to navigate this page with dial-up. Hope all of my friends are well and that you all had a great holidays. If anyone would like to get in touch with me you can email me at stuepdassol@aol.com or contact me on myspace, I check it a lot more regularly. my myspace: http://www.myspace.com/Stue_pidassol hope to hear from you soon.

so yeah I moved, but where I am living now all I have is dial-up, and if you don't know, this site is horrendous to use if you do not have a high speed connection, so I am still alive, just not much chance of getting on here for now, if anyone needs to get a hold of me, feel free to ask for my email address.

sorry to all my friends for not being around much lately, I have not been getting along with my roomies so I have been staying away from home, I am moving out tomorrow so I should be around much more

not of any war, but I proudly served my country for 8 years as a Marine, and Veteran's Day will be here soon, as well as on November 10th it will be the 231st Marine Corps Birthday, so remember your vets, and also if you know a Marine, be sure to tell them Happy Birthday on Friday, they will appreciate it. If you are a Marine, Happy Birthday and Semper Fidelis... I for one appreciate the service you gave our country... and that goes for all the vets out there as well....

I happen to have 2 roommates, one of which is my cousin, and recently we have been having fridge wars. Not in a good way either. It started with my cousin buying some beer and putting a note on it saying don't touch, which is his every right. The thing is, if I have beer or anything in there, he always helps himself to it. So I went an bought groceries and put a note on everything I bought that it was mine and to not touch. He didn't really like that one, but he never buys food for here, but will eat stuff I buy if he likes it. Then it spread to my other roommate because he hangs out with this girl who seems to think she is allowed to tell us what to do in our own home. She went and bought some zimas and left them in our fridge for a couple days. Well I was drinking a couple beers one night and when I finished my couple beers I drank her Zimas. When my roomie came home that night he started bitching at me because I drank her zimas. I told him that the 24 hour rule applied. He didn't like that very much, and said she would just start leaving notes on her stuff if she left it here. I told him I could careless how many notes she leaves on her stuff here, she isn't paying any bills and doesn't live here, she doesn't have rights in a place she doesn't live in, especially if she isn't helping pay bills. That's about all so far, tell me what you think about all this. The 24 hour rule: The 24 hour rule states that any partially consumed liquor left over at the host's house for more than 24 hours after the end of a party becomes property of the host. The host is not required to notify the owner during this period. "Hey man, I left some rum here last week, did you see it?" "I drank it, 24 hour rule dude." "Fair enough."

I got a job... go me

just felt like getting a few things off my chest, that I find kind of irritating. First, I would like to comment about originality; My lostcherry friend updated their photo so I rush over and the only thing I can think of to say is POP, I got your cherry... I find this to be really annoying for some reason. Some may think that it is perfectly fine, but to me it just seems that you really have no opinion on that picture so all you can think to do is put pop. I do not try and comment every single picture that people upload, however I do try to at least rate them all. And if someone has a shitload of pictures it is really hard to come up with things to say. Well for me it is, I prefer to not talk about shoving my tongue deep inside you or other stuff like that, I may allude to it, but I am not very likely to say it like that. What I like the most is if someone puts captions on their pictures, gives you something to possibly answer too while letting them know you saw their latest pictures. Now I know a lot of people don't mind about all this, I just find it a touch peeving. Second, I have a roommate, who likes to buy stuff and then label it as his, yet when I buy stuff, he seems to think that its free game. Last time I bought food I put a note on all of it saying it was mine. Apparently he didn't like that, he wrote me a nice long letter (mind you my roommate is my cousin) well I let me brother read the letter and my brother looked at me and calmly said, "I thought he was your roommate/cousin, not your girlfriend." The real kicker about the whole thing is he knows I am having financial troubles yet he has a job, and when there is no food here, he can go to a few places to eat, i.e his girlfriend's, his father's, etc.. yet he has yet to buy any food for here, and we have lived here since january. Finally, and I will be done bitching and moaning... FOR GOD'S SAKE people, I don't mind voting for you in a contest, hell I randomly open bulletins and vote for people there, but don't just send me a shout with the link to some asinine contest you are in when you don't even have the common courtesy to say hey Terry, how the hell are you doing you prick... it isn't that hard to say hello, it's been the universal greeting for a couple millenia

yesterday was the 7 year anniversary of my stabbing... for those of you not aware, on october 16th 1999 I was stabbed and left for dead on my livingroom floor

all my "contestors" that are always coming to me to vote for them. Hey I have no problem giving you my vote, but I think if you ask that of someone, you should at least spend a bit of time with that person's profile you are soliciting for help. Don't shout me for a vote when you haven't done shit for me, and you can vote my profile when you make your shout, but that doesn't mean you have voted my pics, left me a voice comment, or even left me a regular comment. If you want to be diplomatic, you have to spend way more time then that.

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