What dreams r made of's blog: "satisfaction"

The real DIFFERENCE Between Girls & WOMEN 1. Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling. 2. Girls yell at you for not calling them. Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't. 3. Girls are afraid to be alone. Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth. 4. Girls ignore the good guys. Grown women ignore the bad guys. 5. Girls make you come home. Grown women make you want to come home. 6. Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits. 7. Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man. 8. Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends). Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes out with her own friends. 9. Girls think a guy crying is weak. Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue. 10. Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so. Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'. 11. Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women know that was just one man. 12. Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'. Grown women know that sometimes the one's you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness. You feel me on that? I am a real woman with no time for girly games.

I am so happy with life right now. I am living the life that most 22 year olds only dream about, and it just keeps getting better and better. Not only am I looking to get a promotion at work, I have a healthy son who admires me, I have many friends who would do anything for me, and on top of everything else...my new business is just about ready to launch. Now dont get me wrong there are those things that cause stress but I am not letting those things get in my way. Yeah sure it sux being lonely, but its my choice to be that way. My career and my son mean so much to me. If I wasnt this way then I wouldnt be as successful as I am today or what I will be in the years to come. I feel as though one day when I settle down, I will have plenty of time to have relationships and possibly get married but for now I am just doing what I have to, to give me and my son a great life. I have seen people struggle, and that life just isnt for me!