Over 16,532,661 people are on fubar.
What are you waiting for?
Okay since I'm continuing on my rant, I guess I'm going get back on my soap box and hand some a little common sense to those who apparently either do not have it or lost it in their quest to be something that they're not on the Internet.
1) If you are in a relationship but want to be friends with a member of the opposite sex, BE UP FRONT about your status. Do not pretend your live in girlfriend/wife/significant other does not exist especially when you're on the computer. There is nothing that kills a potential friendship than lying about who you are.
2) If you work in the military or you work in security or any other job that uses the Internet constantly for information, it would be my greatest suggestion that you do NOT post any pictures that would compromise yourself (pictures of your genitals, et al). There is nothing worse than your boss making some kind of comment in regards to your penis size and what site he found this on. It would be much worse if your spouse caught these pictures of you on a website such as this or even your kids!
3) Do not think by calling someone "baby, sexy, gorgeous, or hot" is any kind of true compliment for an introduction. The men/women have one thing in mind and it certainly isn't you for a long period of time.
4) Flipping off the camera, wearing gangsta clothing or making gang signs, showing off your genitals or talking as though you don't have any comprehension of the English language is NOT going to make me notice you. In fact, in my eyes, it will make you look not only uneducated but wondering how quick I can chlorinate the gene pool.
5) Treat everyone with dignity and respect. If you cannot do this on the computer, get off of the Internet and start practicing in real life.
6) When you love someone tell them how you feel. There is a such thing as love at first sight, but get to know them as a person first. And please, do NOT ask me to marry you when you introduce yourself. I won't.
7) Everyone has issues in their life off of the computer. If someone is hurting, comfort them. If someone is sad or devastated over some kind of loss, be there for them. We are all human beings belonging to the same race no matter what our skin color is. The true test of character is being there when it matters most..
If I think of anything more, I will post it! I'm going to enjoy my comfortable bed with my numerous amount of pillows before I have to get up and work out. Love and cheers!
All I ask is for people to be up front and honest with me about things. I don't ask for much really. However, what I've seen lately are people who seem to say one thing, dangle a carrot in front of your nose to make you believe them and then WHAM! these people end up breaking your heart and leaving you with the shards of broken glass that was your heart.
If you are reading this blog, know this. If you are pretending to be something you're not, I will find out and it will be ugly. If you're hiding something, I will find out about it eventually. Do NOT string people along just to get your jollies off on anyone. I've been honest and up front with those I've talked to and made great friends. Why? Because I'm real and what you see is real. No bullshit. No jokes. No lies. NOTHING...why lie when you'll eventually get caught anyway?
I'm giving you much to ponder on.
Oh yes, and if you're married and your wife doesn't know you're on FUBAR trying to find a lady to play with or have a relationship, you should seriously rethink your actions and do what is right by her. If you're not happy in your marriage, leave and yes, it's that simple!!
