guidomedic's blog: "~Relationships 101~"

Holding on to your relationship is easier said than done. You have met this great guy or girl and want to continue see your relationship grow. But in the nervousness to strengthen your relationship one sometimes goes overboard. Either we become too possessive or take things for granted. So all those singles out there stop fretting and take some action to make your relationship stronger and matured. ~Live the Relationship~ One common reason for the relationships going downhill is that couples can’t connect to each other. How many times you have heard the statement, “He is simply not here. Only his body is here, the mind is somewhere else.” Well if this is your situation then try to live your relationship. Be alive in it and actively participate with your partner. When you are in a relationship the most important thing is to work as a couple and not as two individuals. ~Don’t be an Attention Seeker~ It is a great feeling that you are in love with your partner but that doesn’t mean that you spend every waking moment with your partner. As you long for intimacy, remember there is also a need to maintain a certain amount of distance between the two of you. After all you need some breathing space also. Value your partner’s privacy and build a separate world for both of you together. ~Postpone The Thought ‘Marriage’~ One of the most rushed feelings in any love relationship is to get married in mind long before you are already married. If your relationship is still in the dating phase, then simply enjoy these moments. Get to know the person better and when the both of you feel that you are ready to take your relationship to the next level then think about marriage. ~Don’t Force The Relationship~ Force never works in a relationship. If you are thinking that your partner will suddenly change all her old habits and be a completely new person then you are living an illusion. Don’t force your partner to be something that he or she isn’t. Accept him or her the way she is and grow together in becoming mature individuals. ~Take it Slow And Steady~ Falling in love is always a rushed feeling. But this emotion of excitement doesn’t last for long. Feel the thrill of the highs of romance in your relationship but it is best to settle down fast and to let your relationship grow on a steady pace. ~Don’t Give Up Your Ideas~ Giving up your individuality is never going to help your relationship. When you met your partner he or she liked and admired you for what you are. Your confidence brought the very best for you. So why there is a need to give up your way of thinking now. It is right to adjust and make space for yourself but giving up on your beliefs and principals is only going to act as a slow poison. ~Open The Channels Of Communications~ Communication is always the foundation of your relationship. If a couple has heart to heart talk then your relationship will definitely improve. So say what’s in your mind and express your feelings to your partner. With romance, intimacy and togetherness you will find that this relationship is the best thing that happened to you. Peace.