DV8's blog: "Relationship Tips For Men and Women !"

"A TRUE MAN" When she walks away from you mad [ Follow her ] When she stare's at your mouth [ Kiss her ] When she pushes you or hit's you [ Grab her and dont let go ] When she start's cussing at you [ Kiss her and tell her you love her ] When she's quiet [ Ask her whats wrong ] When she ignore's you [ Give her your attention ] When she pull's away [ Pull her back ] When you see her at her worst [ Tell her she's beautiful ] When you see her start crying [Just hold her and dont say a word ] When you see her walking [ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ] When she's scared [ Protect her ] When she lay's her head on your shoulder [ Tilt her head up and kiss her ] When she steal's your favorite hat [ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night] When she tease's you [ Tease her back and make her laugh ] When she doesnt answer for a long time [ reassure her that everything is okay ] When she look's at you with doubt [ Back yourself up ] When she say's that she like's you [ she really does more than you could understand ] When she grab's at your hands [ Hold her's and play with her fingers ] When she bump's into you [ bump into her back and make her laugh ] When she tell's you a secret [ keep it safe and untold ] When she looks at you in your eyes [ dont look away until she does ] When she misses you [ she's hurting inside ] When you break her heart [ the pain never really goes away ] When she says its over [ she still wants you to be hers ] When she repost this bulletin [ she wants you to read it ] - Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything. - When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go - When she says she's ok dont believe it, talk with her - because 10 yrs later she'll remember you - Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her - Call her before you sleep and after you wake up - Treat her like she's all that matters to you. - Tease her and let her tease you back. - Stay up all night with her when she's sick. - Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid. - Give her the world. - Let her wear your clothes. - When she's bored and sad, hang out with her. - Let her know she's important. - Kiss her in the pouring rain. - When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is; "Who's ass am I kicking babe?"

Watermelons are favorite summer fruits that are loaded with antioxidants. Previous research touted watermelons as being high in lycopene, an antioxidant associated with heart, prostate, and skin health. Now this sweet treat might be something you serve on Valentine’s Day, too. Researchers at Texas A & M University have found that watermelons have ingredients that deliver a Viagra-like effect to the body’s blood vessels and may increase libido. Besides being high in lycopene, watermelons have been discovered to contain another antioxidant called citrulline. It partners with the amino acid arginine to potentially improve heart health and the immune system, and it may also help with obesity, type 2 diabetes, and perhaps erectile dysfunction. Citrulline helps relax blood vessels, similar to the effect of Viagra. The majority of the citrulline compound is located in the watermelon rind, so plant breeders are working to create varieties that have higher amounts of citrulline in the edible portion of the fruit..... Eat Up , Boys !!!!!

Remember how your relationship was in the very beginning? You stayed up all night talking about everything - your dreams and desires and even the things that scare or embarrass you. But then, as the relationship went a long, you stopped talking about so much. Everything became so heavy and meaningful. In the beginning, things were great. There was a level of trust and open communication that created intimacy and understanding. So, what happened to that? Where did it go and how can you get it back? I used to try to protect my partner from those heavy, bad moods and ugly thoughts. I went to my room and hung out until I felt like socializing again. I thought I was noble in my ability to control what came out of my mouth. I thought I was kind because I never let on what I was thinking. But what I was doing was ruining my relationships. There was no relationship. I was cutting myself off from others and never allowing them to know me. They never knew what I was thinking or feeling or needing. I was an island. A very lonely island. I really thought that if I let people know the ugly thoughts, not only would they be hurt - but they would probably become angry and disown me - betray me, talk shit behind my back. I would be the outcast. So I beat them to the punch! Hah! I'd banish myself to my own room (or apartment, as I got older). I'd banish myself to silence. You can either have a N.I.C.E. (Not Interested in Connecting Emotionally) relationship... where you hide what is true out of fear. Or you can have an alive, real relationship with intimacy, compassion and understanding. Some people withhold from their partner and add an extra zinger -- they put on a show of pain and discomfort in order to punish them. It's an effort to communicate just how much pain they're in. But none of it's verbalized. It's a show of the pain. When you start keeping secrets and withholding,.. when you cut off the sharing of life force between you,... you're cutting off the intimacy in your relationship. Even if you think you're protecting your partner from painful or embarrassing thoughts - it's still destroying your relationship. Relationships require sharing... both our dreams and desires along with our doubts and fears. What are you feeling and what needs of yours are being met or not? ... I'm happy because my need for support in keeping our home is being met. I'm disappointed because my need for partnership isn't being met in the way we're handling our finances. I'm sad because my need for connection isn't being met when you're out with your friends every evening. You can find out more about this style of intimate communication, along with other advice on building healthy, intimate relationships, at our website: www MagicRelationship dot com. Another tip: when you offer your feelings and needs, it's best to follow them with a request. If you offer them without a request, your partner won't know why you're giving them the information. Do you want to be just heard? Do you want advice? Do you want to come up with a strategy for meeting your needs? Why the heck are you telling me this? Often, a comment without a request will be taken as blame... which will lead to fixing, fighting or fleeing. Don't leave your poor partner hanging. Paul and I recommend asking, "Would you tell me what you heard me say?" (Avoid saying 'could'- it implies they aren't intelligent enough to repeat you. And avoid saying "What did I say?" because what you said and what they heard are two different things.) And one more tip: don't think that little behaviors are enough to be warranted as 'sharing feelings and needs.' Fixing your honey a cup of coffee in the morning is very sweet, but it may not communicate your feelings of love and contentment like actually verbalizing the information. "I love you so much", PLUS the cup of coffee goes much further. Frowning and throwing around the bed covers while you make the bed may not adequately communicate your feelings and needs, either. Instead, say: "I'm feeling disappointed because my need for support around the house isn't being met. Would you be willing to discuss a way to help that would also meet your needs?" There's no room for misinterpretation there. Try it out this holiday season: make a pact with your beloved to share absolutely ALL your feelings and needs for one day - the good, the bad and the ugly. Then follow the information with a request. Be prepared to spend some time processing and discussing those feelings and needs as they come up. However, try to avoid getting into BLAMING and 'FAULT' behind the feelings and needs. That tends to end up in a free-for-all about evaluations and judgments - who's right and who's wrong. Try to stick with feelings, needs and requests. Try to do this on a day when you'll have the time. You won't want to get cut off because you have to run to pick up the kids right when you're getting to the heart of an issue that's snuck up silently between you. You're going to want to stay and hold each other and talk it through... and feel the intimacy of clearing out all of those old, crusty feelings and unmet needs that have been clogging the flow of love.

Dating Tips From Seduction Experts Fancy to be an online date that she will never forget? These are 4 great online dating information from allurement professionals all over the earth: 1. Have you been informed about "neg?" A neg is neither an insult not a praise. It's a combination of both. Why is a neg a vital weapon for an online dater? It's not because ladies dig negs, that's for sure. On the other hand, ladies despise negs because it keeps them wondering. 'What did he mean by that?" they'd ask themselves long following the dialogue. Women are so used to compliments today that if anyone gives them a pseudo-praise, pseudo-abuse, the person who do the same will earn a place in their minds. 2. Mystery, not misery. Remember, you're not there to make the lady's life more gloomy. You're there to stimulate her in a manner that will result in an affirmative impression. The means to deliver this is by adding a sense of secrecy into your interrelation. Desert her wanting for more. Question her if you can a moment of her time for some sweet conversation. When she consents, tell her you changed your mind. This will annoy her, yes, but it will also make her remember you for ever. Dating Tips From Seduction Experts: 3. Display a sense of humor that's always proper to the occasion. Women turn towards men who have a sense of humor. Nevertheless, talking to anyone who's as boring as a tree log would be pointless. Show your sense of humor, but don't overdo it. Always reveal a sense of humor that is proper, bearing in mind the situations within. 4. Say an opening phrase that's not a clich'ed pickup line you got from a decades-old TV program. The funnier your opening phrase is, the better. First impressions do last in the world of online dating. How your companion perceives you at first is most probably how he or she will perceive you in the future

Everyone wants to be a hero in bed! But not many men are capable of being a hero because they keep repeating some simple mistakes in bed that can put off their partner. Knowing these mistakes and avoiding them can not only make you a better lover but also give you greater satisfaction. Here are a list of common mistakes in bed. 1. Not shaving before sex: Men are turned on by women because of their smooth and supple bodies devoid of hair. Just stop for a second and think how it would feel if you were to go down on her and got poked and irritated in the face and eyes by her hair! If you want your woman to go down on you make sure that you are clean-shaven down there for even a day's worth of hair can be very irritating and uncomfortable for her. 2. Don't expect her to swallow: If your woman is going down on you for the first time and giving you a good head do not assume that she will swallow or get it splashed around on her face! Not many women are comfortable with this and it is your basic courtesy to inform her that you are about to ejaculate and leave the decision to her. Another point to remember is that when she is down on you do not force yourself into her mouth. Let her dictate the pace and not you. 3. Undress sensibly: Most of the times we remember to take off our shirt, trouser and stand with a raging member covered by the underpants or boxers but look silly with the socks still on! Remember to undress sensibly and make sure that the socks is not the last item to come off. 4. Do not chew on her neck: Hickeys are not funny. It amazes me to see the number of women with bruises on the neck after a passionate session of love-making. It is cheap and embarrassing for the woman to explain her bruises. Do not chew on her neck like there was no tomorrow. 5. Take care to address her love button: Women enjoy intense clitoral stimulation as the orgasms can be explosive. However not all women like direct clitoral stimulation as it can be very intense. Remember to take it easy and do not plunge into her trousers to grab her love button. Work your way to stimulate the clitoris in a slow and relaxed manner and that makes her O's better.

Sex sells, and it's proven on a daily basis in the worldwide media. No matter where you look, there's a perfectly bronzed, bikini-clad body trying to sell something. It's become so common most of us don't even pay attention anymore. On any given day you pick up a magazine, newspaper, glance at a billboard, or turn on the TV, there they are: The supermodels of the world wearing as little as the law will allow. If you're like most of the viewing public, you barely notice. It's just part of the day. Now, on the other hand, if your wife walks out of the shower, still dripping wet with a tight towel wrapped around her, you had better stand up and take notice. Even though this may be a daily routine, it's a one-man show, and you are that lucky man. This is where you bathe her with smile-provoking compliments and score major points. That's right, the small, everyday occurrences and compliments are the foundation for a lasting relationship. If you think it's that once-a-year trip to Hawaii or the Bahamas that's going to build a stronger relationship, you might be a little off target. There is absolutely nothing wrong with going on a romantic getaway, but the key to having the time of your life starts way before you head to the airport. Lasting relationships require daily maintenance or effort, if you will, similar to the caliber of service a Learjet may require for smooth operation. It's not so much work as it is effort. As long as both parties make a daily effort, you're on the right track to a sustainable, rewarding life together. 10 valuable tips to maintaining a relationship ? Communicate and relate - this is where it all starts, and in many cases, where it ends. You must be willing to talk about and discuss all facets of your life. A big mistake in relationships is thinking that your partner would not understand or might have no valuable input on a troubling matter. After all, who knows you better? ? Unselfish - now that there are two of you, every decision should be based on what's best for both of you. You actually have to care. ? Commitment - it's truly amazing how many people in relationships still think the pastures may be greener over the next hill. When you find the one, stop looking. In the early stages it's hard to tell if you've found your lifelong mate. But if you don't give it 100percent commitment, you'll never know. ? Appreciation - make it a daily routine. Nobody knows what you're thinking. You have to say it and show it daily. Never assume your partner knows you appreciate her. ? Respect - pay close attention to how you introduce your loved one to friends and associates and be proud to introduce her. You two decide what's acceptable. Is she your girlfriend, lady, partner, fianc?or wife? ? Perfection - it doesn't exist, so don't set your standards too high. Stay focused on all the great things you love about her and try to ignore the small things that might annoy you. In reality, the annoyances are insignificant when compared to the big picture. ? Acceptance - acknowledge the unique, strange and maybe even unfamiliar traits she brings into your life. Everyone was brought up differently. With an open mind, you can laugh together about different traditions. ? Try new things - learning new things together for the first time makes memories you can share for life. ? Laugh - every day, just like taking vitamins, laughing is the number one cure-all for every relationship. Laugh with each other, and sometimes at each other. It's hard to be mad when you're laughing. ? Activities - anytime, anywhere, never pass up the opportunity to do anything together. Walking, hiking, biking, swimming, cooking, dancing, or just watching the sunset. Just make sure you do as many things together as possible. Marriage is at an all-time low in America. Many of today's newlyweds look at marriage as a window of opportunity (a few years of love, sex and security), rather than a lifelong commitment. Divorces are up, and dating is today's most popular pastime. In the dating process, everybody's on their best behavior, but when it evolves into a relationship, that's when the 10 tips come into play. People are living longer today, and even if you enjoy the bachelor life and are set in your ways, there is nothing like the love of a good woman to take your life to the next level. The more mature you get, the more you like companionship, as well as the satisfaction of knowing you have someone to share your life with through the good times and bad. Most people will agree that growing old is not something they look forward to going through alone. The hidden pleasures of maintaining a relationship far outweigh the small amount of effort it takes to keep both sides content. In the middle of every day, walk up and hug her, kiss her on the cheek, hold her for a minute, and tell her you love her. It will recharge her deep inside, but what do you think it will do for you? It will power you up and make you stronger and more fulfilled because the love you give her is second hand. You feel it first, give it to her, then she returns it to you. It's like a magic, energizing triangle. It's one of the greatest feelings on earth, and just goes to show the saying is true - what goes around comes around

IDEA # 1 If your partner is going away for a few days, tell her that you are worried about her so you have organized a bodyguard to look after her. Then give her a small teddy bear. IDEA # 2 Buy a packet of glow in the dark stars and stick the stars on the roof above your bed to spell out a message such as "I Love You" When the lights go down, your message will be revealed! IDEA # 3 On a special occasion, buy your partner eleven real red roses and one artificial red rose. Place the artificial rose in the center of the bouquet. Attach a card that says: "I will love you until the last rose fades." IDEA # 4 Buy the domain name of your partner's name if it is available for example www.TanyaJohnston. com. Create a web page containing a romantic poem and a picture of a rose. When your partner is surfing the web, casually ask whether she has ever checked to see whether her domain name is taken. Let her type it in to discover her page. IDEA # 5 Buy a stylish hand mirror and give it to your partner as a gift. Include a card in the box saying "In this mirror you will see the image of the most beautiful woman in the world." IDEA # 6 Take a book that your partner is reading and using a pencil, underline letters in a section of the book she has yet to read to spell out a love letter. For example in the following exert from a novel, the underlined letters come together to spell out the secret message "I love you" The palace was a labyrinth, their passage through it tortuous and interminable. Initially they passed from building to building under the sodden sky. Steve's feet ached; he might have laughed at himself, the tireless traveler, grown too soft from his months in the city to walk any proper distance. Abruptly the guards halted. The underlined letters will make your partner curious and with a bit of luck she will write them down. Spend time to encode a proper message such as "Dear Belinda, I love you honey" IDEA # 7 Have flowers delivered to your partner's workplace. She will not only enjoy the flowers but will also receive comments and attention from her office mates which will add to her enjoyment. IDEA # 8 While walking with your partner on a weekend getaway, pick up a smooth stone and say that you're going to keep it as a special memento of your trip. Later, have a message such as "I Love Rebecca" engraved into the stone by a jeweler and give it to your partner. IDEA # 9 Drive into the country, find a grassy hill and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds. Play the kid's game of looking for shapes in the cloud formations. IDEA # 10 Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write "I Love You" inside a heart. Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner's work such as: For the immediate and urgent attention of: Rebecca Jones Level 20 Collins & Smith Solicitors New York Mail it to your partner so she receives it in the middle of a busy day. IDEA # 11 Memorize one of Shakespeare' s love sonnets and recite it to your partner when you are in a romantic setting like a botanical garden. Don't just suddenly start reciting poetry as this will just sound corny. While you are cuddling your partner, ask in a joking manner, "So is now a good time to recite a love poem to you?" She will probably say yes, expecting you to come up with something of the "Roses are Red..." variety. Instead, look into her eyes, smile and recite the sonnet while you gently stroke her face. Try the sonnet below. If this is too long, just memorize the first four lines and the last two. IDEA # 12 If your partner has to work late, take a lunch box and fill it with some of her favorite things such as chocolates, herbal tea, cookies, a small teddy bear. Next, get a piece of paper and write "Michelle's Late Night Survival Pack" Draw a big red cross below this and stick the paper to the top of the box. Tell your partner to open the box when things get really tough. IDEA # 13 If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from her childhood. IDEA # 14 Leave a long stem rose where your partner will find it with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming into my life." IDEA # 15 If your partner is starting a new job, buy a copy of "The Sound Of Music" sound track. Tape the song, "I Have Confidence" onto a tape and add your own message at the end of the song saying, "Good Luck honey, I have confidence in you." Give the tape to your partner to play on the way to work in the car. IDEA # 16 Buy a small decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card: I know a great Masseur. For an appointment ring: (Your Phone Number) IDEA # 17 When your spouse has had a really long hard day, run a hot bath for her. Pour some fragrant bath oil into the tub and gently bathe her from head to toe. Carry her into the bedroom. Gently towel her dry and tuck her into a freshly made bed with a kiss on the forehead. IDEA # 18 For this idea you will need a portable CD player. If you and your partner have a favorite song, get a copy of it on CD and take it with you when you go away for a romantic weekend. When you are in a romantic spot, ask your partner if she would like to dance. Place one earpiece in her ear and one in your own and enjoy your private dance floor.