I am a wonderful, fantabulous person who isn't very modest (most of the time). I'm the mother of a 9 year old son who is my life. I do not drink, I do not smoke, I do not do drugs.





IF A MAN WANTS YOU!!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn`t want you, nothing can make him stay. ( READ IT AGAIN LET THERE BE NO CONFUSION)

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change your self for a relationship that`s not meant to be. Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then NO, you can`t "be friends." A friend wouldn`t mistreat a friend. Don`t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he IS.

Don`t stay because you think "it will get better." (LOL) You`ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is YOU. Avoid men who`ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn`t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man`s behavior. Change comes from within.

Don`t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else`s man. If he cheated WITH you, he`ll cheat ON you!!

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary... not supplementary!

Dating is fun...even if he doesn`t turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.


Never move into his mother`s house.


NEVER, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever ¿. co-sign for a man. (Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)


Don`t fully commit to a man who doesn`t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.