If you ask people what some of the most important things in a relationship are, they would say honesty. Wrong! People don't really want honesty. They want to hear what makes them happy. For example, if your woman ask yuou if these pants/dress/skirt make her butt look big, they dont want honesty. If you give them honesty, you will be single soon. Guys are no better. We want to think we are the best of girfriend/wife ever had. If you ask them, and they tell you the truth, you will get your feelings hurt. If a guy is looking at another woman and your girlfriend sees you and asks, "do you think shes pretty?","hell yeah" is not what they want to hear. And if they say they bet you would like to take another woman home, do not say "A threesome? Sure!". Again, these answers will make you single, very quickly! Honesty is the best policy, only if you know when to use it!
