Wicked Wenchie's blog: "People are people"

Ok my fubar friends, here is something for you to chomp on, Here is it Mothers day, Everyone is celebrating their mothers today, and Me being a mother myself, am happy I get to spend time with my kids. However, this is where this passage gets interesting, I live 300 miles away from my children and dont get to see them much anymore, they prefer to be with their friends and go to school in a familar place, So this weekend, BEING MOTHERS DAY, I thought it would be nice to take a trip on the bus to see my kids, Not even before I hit town, people are calling me making plans for me to spend the whole day with them and I can spend time with my kids when we were done. So I called this morning and said I wasn't going riding with them because my kids are the reason I am in town.

These people try to make me feel guilty for not dropping what I want to do for them. When I dont see them riding their happy harley riding asses to where I live? Sounds a little one sided to me..So I say, That if they are going to be like that, fuck em, who wants to be friends that compete with my kids, WRONG ANSWER! Aint happening, I never picked a man over my kids and I would never do for anyone else either, my kids are my life, If anyone has a problem with that, then They need to rethink their life, Obviously they are missing something and I dont really think its me...Selfish people remind me of tiny kids that say " Thats not fair" all the time...Yah life ISNT fair!! BFD get over it and move along or don't. 

In conclusion, If a person cant take into consideration another persons needs and wants, how the hell can they call that person a friend? That to me is not friendship, its obsessivness and posessive, 2 very unbalanced qualities in which I have no admoration for and find it inconsiderate and un nerving..

Ok so about 3 weeks ago I was finishing up at work and stopped by Arby's for some much needed lunch, Went in and got my food and went out to my car. Not as soon as I put it in reverse, this asshole drives up ina cargo van, drops off his "amigo" and tried to squeaze this van into the space next to me. Already starting to excalate, I say " Pardon me sir, but if you move I can get out and you can get parked easier" he starts yelling at me, by this time Im pissed off and starting to get racial because he is talking to me in Spanish. So by now Im like so ready to get out and beat the shit out of someone, he almost hit my car, so I say " Dude, I took to the time to learn your language, Just because Im white dont mean shit, So please move so I can leave, I was here first, and while your at it go back to mexico you asshole". Yes I do apologize for being racial but damn it, He was in the wrong and I had to say something.

My point is how far must it go to be forces to be like that? Racial slurs everywhere, people joking and having a good time, But it is all about humanity, Why so people have to be so evil towards one another. I watched 2012 last night and had to stop watching it because it freaked me out so bad, Thats next year and man I am not ready I still have so much to do in this life..The possibility of that man oh man its heavy...and in the end, all people will fall, not matter of age,gender, race, or tax bracket.Where is the good will towards men these days, FFS...If I needed an organ transplant, do you think Id care if the only donar was black, hell no...and When I die, I have chosen to be an organ donor, but since I had a near death experience, I had to have a blood transplant. And to this day I am so thankful of the clean untained blood that was given me because It saved my life. 

How many of you put yourselves out there every day, only to be snubbed by the people that are supposed to care? Its nice to have good friends and a supportive family, but what happens when you think you have met the right people, and they totally take take take? Do you remain friends with them dispite what they do to hurt you or dont care that they hurt you? I for one WILL NOT have people in my life like that, Yes in the past I have re-welcomed people back in my life only to be lied to, cheated on and mentally raped by them, How many times can a person put themselves through being tormented before they get sick of it?

Move on, find real people that dont have an agenda, people that are genuine can tell the difference in true friends and people that just wanna be's. I have met some awesome people online that I would rather talk to then some people I have lived lfe with over the years. I would put myself out there for them and not give some people I have known for years a second glance.

Why? because they are not out to get me and out to conquer so to speak, I am not a Conquest, I am a person with needs and wants just like everyone else. I am a good genuine person and I believe I dont deserve to be snubbed or past over. When I say I love you, I mean it, not just a ploy to get what I want, and when I get it, I dont treat people like crap. 

Well folks it looks like its time to cover that subject of "Internet Dating". Time and Time again, I have seen people hook up online, only to see about 8 or 9 months later, them back online bad mouthing those people they hooked up with.OR..The classic " OMG they are married? Ummm...Well...this is the NET, people can hide behind their profiles, They can hide the most intimate details of their real life...These are the people that never disclose any information, people that want to call you at a certain time, kinda means they have something to hide But anyway, I have met some kick ass people online, that I still talk to after 11 years of being around on the net. Never have I once, treated them as they were nothing.

   And I also like to be very clear that Its not always a bad thing meeting people on the net, You just need to keep a look out for those people out there that are just plain out fakes and frauds. Being Fu-engaged or Fu married holds no baring on the fact that some of these people are already in real life relationships. and they say " Its just a game, it doesnt mean anything" sure if thats what you are here to do is play games, Its all well and good until someone gets hurt, and I garantee someone is going to get hurt. Granted There ARE some relationships that begin online and these people really fall in love and have a good future ahead of them, but the percentage of these relationships is quite small.

Then there are the ones that hook up but they keep their options open, Never make someone a priority if you are only an option in someones life. If they can't hold you with the highest regards, then it is plain to see they need to go, I have a friend here that has been Fu married several times and each time he thinks he has someone good in his life, they turn on him and make him feel small because the people he hooked up with were married and those people hid it until it came time to step up, then they get pissy because they got caught. How can someone hide the fact they are married, when these women are vague and not surprisingly prego? Come people, Use your head for something besides a hat rack!!?

I am not a hypocrit, I met my boyfriend online, and I can tell you, it hasnt always been a picnic, he is a good man and I love him so, but I did not just jump in without finding out the real deal before I even considered him as a prime candidate to be in my life. My advise is just be careful whom you fall for, you may just be paving your way to heartache.

Ok fubarians, This Blog is for the many people out there that are on Fubar alot. How many of you start the day out making sure all your friends are sh*t faced and have gifts from you only to sign on later to find not even one of them returned the luv? It amazes me that people are so caught up in the "game" they forget they have "real" friends out there. Don't know how many of you that has real friends on fubar that they have invited to play by you, or friends you have met offline from fubar, But I can confidently say that I have not lost track of those people on my list, just more than half are never around or if they are, they would rather buy gifts for their "new friends" I dont know maybe thier tits are bigger, or they have a nicer body, hell maybe they show nudes, in which I do not care to show all for points, or for any other reason. Just feels that I have to earn gifts, or attention or even a short conversation. So in conclusion of this little segement Im calling "No gifts, No Glory", I have decided that none of the people on my list give a damn about me as a friend so I will be deleting them and moving on. Maybe I can get some "new friends" of my own and see how that works for me (yah right). Plus just because someones drink meter looks full, for one, doesnt mean its really full, try refreshing your page, Second of all, Why do I have to be online for someone to think enough of me to send me a gifts? Im sure Im not the only one that has this issue, and all I can say is, If people are going to be like that, its probably best just to send them on their way and Try to make better friends!