The AlchemistxxOf Song and Pen's blog: "open thoughts"

What does dancing tell us? Of course it depends on the music, and the dancers interpretation. Dancing is body language amplified. If the body is completely covered as with a choir robe, then the conversation is muffled. Then the only thing you can tell from the person's motion is that they are enjoying themselves, or just enjoying the beat of the music.

Am I getting to a point? Just like when a person speaks words, those words can be lies, also your body language can lie. Just as when someone chooses to say nothing, they are keeping a secret; When a person chooses to cover they're body, they are keeping a secret, and they don't even realize it.

Next, just as some people think and communicate in a shallow manner, the average person interprets body language in a shallow manner AND in IQ terms at less than 60. Don't get me wrong. I'm not calling anybody ignorant. However, when it comes to body language, most people are illiterate.

Men especially, but also women see "sexy". We know that a rapist believes that no means yes. While a man is busy raping with his eyes a woman that is dressed hotly, in actuality the woman may have a yeast infection in addition to her period, or PMS. She could possibly be having the worst day of her life, and trying to buck up and not let it show, and even the most sensative and well raised males are only going to see "sexy". By the way, guys, if you have never noticed, that really pisses a woman off.

If you don't want you're body language misinterpreted, the only thing you can do is cover up better. How many of you that have been around amish families has ever truly seen the shape of an Amish girls ass? None, because it is always covered. Going by genetics alone, I guarantee to you that if it were uncovered, it would be just as sexy as the average bikini bearing girl.

My point finally: Just as it would be a miracle to convince a KKK leader that black people are human beings and equal to white people, it it would take a miracle to change our ignorance of body language. My suggestion is to concentrate on a more advanced languages.  Verbal, and artistic. Body language has changed very little, if at all from the Neanderthal period. 90% of the time, you are only going to attract people who think and soialize like Neanderthals. Anyone can show their tits and their ass, because everyone has them. I'm a man. I think its attractive and sexy, too. 

You're personality, and intelligence when you let it show shines brighter than the most well oiled 18 year old ass on the entire planet.

My big question for today is, "How do these people get such great profile ratings when they don't even have anything in the about me section, and no background art?"  Answer is 90% of the highly rated generic profiles on here have pictures of tits, ass, and coochie area.

Many males on here seem to like that, but what about personality. I've made many a joke on Mariah Carey's expense that her songs tend to beg for men, even the Christmas song. If she's got all that money and looks and begging for men, then she must have personality issues.

That's a common problem on fubar, and if a male that is not afraid to look is bringing it up, it's pretty bad.

I've been with several women with great looks and bodies that wouldn't know how to treat a man if he came with video instructions. If that's all a woman has to show me, then I'll move on to someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation.

I'm not looking for my next wife or GF on fubar, anyway. I enjoy chatting and listening to music and I currently promote my own written music on here. But if I was to invite a co-worker to fubar, I could certainly see why they would assume that I'm just another pervert on the internet just because of the excessive seduction photos.

I'm not talking about sexy members that actually have thier likes and dislikes. Great artwork shows personality, and finally blogs. I know they take time, but you want to be understood, tell a story about you, even if it's fictional it says something about you.

One profile that I thought was exceptionally well done shows 2 embedded Utube videos of answers to fubarian questions because the person had so many of them. Interesting people make a better fubar. Wanna be Yahoo IM cam girls do not, which is why I seldom go into Yahoo Chat anymore.

Just something to think about.

While growing up on a farm, my siblings and I became accustomed to "barn talk". It was that way on most farms, unless you were Amish or Mennonite. However, like anywhere else, if we repeated those words in school, there was a problem.

To this day, I haven't figured out what the difference between bad words and their replacements that are not considered as offensive. I could say, "that doesn't mean shit to me," or I could use the words "crap" or "dung", or "defication", and it all means the same thing. Someone once told me, "it's classier to say defication." So, does that mean that the part that is offensive is because that's the way a poor person with less education would say it? That doesn't explain a thing to me.

I've never heard a rich, or educated person say, "You're urinating me off!" Have you? Or how about, "I don't give out nonmarital sexual intercourse for pleasure about that."??

It's all just words to me. My old friend that grew up in Jamaica stated that you could say any of the offensive words over Jamiacan radio, and not be fined by the FCC, because it's just words.

So, instead of calling someone a "cunt", I could call them a "vagina", and it should be less offensive because it's classier, right?? I think not. If I'm going to call someone a part of the body in order to offend them, I would call them an appendix, because as opposed to a vagina our appendix no longer has a valuable function in our body. It would be a great insult for a lazy person or a user.

At my workplace, two female co-workers jokingly call each other a witch. While, a hundred years or more ago, it was more offensive to be called a witch than a bitch.

Also, I can tell you for certain that I am an asshole. I remove waste both at home and work on a regular basis, and I have been known to fertilize a few plants on occasion.

Why is "damn", or even "God damn" offensive. So, I'll say it when I smash my thumb with a hammer. Do you think that God is going to send my hammer to hell just because I told him to? Again, "gosh darn" was used to replace those words, but is not considered offensive by most.

Calling someone a whore or slut may be something to get offended by, but still their just words. Someone called my friend a bastard, and his reply was, "and I turned out pretty good for someone who's father didn't stick around to raise me."

To me, people's intentions are far more offensive than any word that anyone can say. If your plan is to rob me of my hard earned money, or rape me, or kill me or any of my friends and family, that is offensive.

I'm not saying to go ahead and taunt people with words that they are offended by, but there would be far less bloodshed and heartache in the world if we all look at them as just words.

My music will be continuously entered in contests on OurStage.com . http://www.ourstage.com/profile/jpatrickmorgan/songs  The outcome is based upon how the general public rates the music, and that of course is YOU. So, if you like the music, tell all your friends about it and have them go rate it too. It will be a big boost for my upcoming CD release.

You've already heard yesterday and today's top 40 over and over and over again. Lots of groups and genres to choose from, so go check out tomorrow's top 40 for something new and different. Because independant musicians like us can't afford payola  on the network radio stations.

For some people, drama comes looking for them. They try to live an ordinary week, day, whatever. Then something gets dropped on them like a bombshell out of the clear blue sky.

That's why I fail to understand certain people that seem to go way out of their way to create drama for themselves. Like guys that like only bad girls, and girls who only like bad guys. I find it very difficult to feel sorry for a girl that turns down nice guys all day long and then suffers raising their kids on their own because her star man is in prison (no one in particular, just as an example). Or the guy that dates a regularly sleasily dressed woman, then wants to beat up every man that looks at her.

The remedy? Depends on the person obviously. But if you really want true happiness, figure out the biggest causes of what makes you unhappy. This won't stop other people from trying to make you unhappy. It only helps in the areas where you sabotage yourself. 

There are 3 songs available to give you a taste of my upcoming CD saltwater on my myspace artist page: http://www.myspace.com/jpatrickmorgan

Take a look. Some editing on this page is in progress. I'll finish it. I promise. A wise band once said "All you need is just a little patience."

The reason for the law that makes us wait until 18 to vate is that we are olod enough to know what we want. In the past 20 years especially, the government has been pretty consistant on giving the opposite of what we want. Check the poles in general for what the majority think is best for our country, versus how congress and the House of Reps vote on the same issues.

You see, I,  a common person, am not just telling you how to think on this subject. I'm telling you to check the facts for yourself. Even, if I was to give you an example here and now, my example would be of an issue that is near to my heart, and not necessarily yours. Politicians should take an example from this.

It's like a rock concert. You could advertise "Ozzy Osbourne" live. Then 30,000 people show up to see that it's actually Pink Floyd. Pink Floyd puts on a very good show, but the people there came to see Ozzy, therefore 25,000 of them will likely ask for their money back.

Politicians know that we can't take our vote for them back. Therefore, they tell people what they want to hear, then fall short shortly after election day.

Soon I will shake this congestion and cough long enough to do a song clip. I promise.

Meanwhile, the only recording I can do at the moment is instrument tracks, cuz my voice sucks right now. So somebody slap some healing magic on me cuz I'm trying to set some deadlines here, please.

my love spreads world=wide on this crazy web,

J Patrick Morgan

We may have to offer incentive to these upcoming government officials. Like tell them if they create 20,000 jobs in our local area, have all the prostitutes you want.