"I am FINALLY starting to realize something:
unless a guy is really into you, don't go
there or stay there, period.
"Every woman deserves a man who is whole-heartedly
into her. Those guys who open up and shut down
have issues that are never going to go away. This
'open up/shut down' B.S. is the way they are and
who needs that? It will probably NOT change!
"And do I even need to mention the problems of
insecurity these men obviously have?
"There are great men out there who don't do that.
I haven't been with too many men who do that, but
the one or two who come to mind had ISSUES, and
nothing I did or didn't do was going to make them
see the light.
"It is a game they play whether they realize they
are playing it or not.
"If I can have that, why would I want one of those
nut jobs with emotional issues?
"It ain't worth it! Please, please, please DO NOT
WASTE YOUR TIME!!!! Never, ever, EVER try to rescue
a guy! KNOW what you want and deserve and accept
nothing less!
"A relationship only works well when both participants
are emotionally healthy. If you have to lead them by
the hand or help them along or play some kind of 'game'
with them, it will not work.
