son, step-son that is...lol.
Well, my 20 year old step-son wrote us off a while back, stating it was my fault and some of the horrendous things he said to me and called me, were totally uncalled for.
Short and sweet....he blamed me for his g/f to break up with him. How in the hell could that be possible when we lived 2 hours or so away from them and it was at least a month and a half between our last contact and her kicking him out..makes no sense.
Anyway...I found out through my mother-in-law that he had gotten his current g/f pregnant. Needless to say I was ticked mainly because he played her like a fiddle and used her for sex, money, rides, place to stay, etc. and I was REALLY hoping she wouldn't be obsessed with him any longer and not even give him the time of day...I was wrong.....because she was the one that was prego.
Well, I got ahold of her on MySpace and sent her a message just trying to find out how she's doing and when she's due and to see if I could get her address to send her some baby goodies.
She defended him even though he treated her like dirt, saying that he's really hurt her but he's also really changed since they started seeing each other again.
Well, goody. I hope he's really grown up, but here she's only 21 or so and already has a kid and expecting another one, still lives with her parents, he's not working and no matter how much bullshit he feeds her, I know he doesn't want to be stuck with her, but for now he is.
He's a player and has had MANY a partner for being so young and this isn't even the first time there's been a pregnancy or scare of one! The last one and he never took any precautions and she came up pg MANY times but always lost it.
So, now I come to find out that they are supposed to be getting married in August...this won't last...no doubt about that one!
The baby is due sometime in July, he'll end up skipping out on the kid and having to pay child support for a kid I know he won't have much to do with....he's young and likes his party time and being held down with a wife and a kid...that just isn't him.
NOW I come to find out that he's going in to the Army. That's great! I hope it REALLY makes him grow up and finally do something with himself but this will also mean that he won't be around much and I know what goes on. He won't stay faithful to her and I'll be surprised if they last a year....barely.
I'm not dooming them, I just have a very good sense on things such as this. She's still heavily obsessed with him and I think she'll put up with his cheating, running around, partying and lying but I don't think he'll want to have her lingering around in the backdrop, so he'll be the one to get the divorce.
Well, he's supposed to leave for Oklahoma or something like that in the next week or so and he'll go for boot camp and then head off to basic training in a state, or at least try to head to a state around Illinois.
So, we'll see how long all of this charade lasts between the two of them. I know what's going to happen but until then, I'll keep my mouth shut to everyone in the family and anyone that knows them and I'll be supportive while they are together but it seems as though I'm the only one that's NOT fooling themselves and can see the truth as to what is going to happen with the two of them.
Oh, well....at least I get to buy for babies! No she's not prego with twins...I also found out last month that my brother-in-law got married in December and his wife is now prego too!
DON'T THESE PEOPLE KNOW WHAT CAUSES THIS?????
Plus he already has a daughter that he barely sees and/or talks to...whatever....THESE ARE THE INSANE AND STUPID DAYS OF OUR PATHETIC LIVES....lol!
