I am a laid back, easy going guy, yet very passionate. Totally spontaneous, in the moment, no regrets, no worries type of guy. I don't regret the past, cause there's not a damn thing you can do about it, and I don't waste time worrying about shit that might or might not happen in the future. The only thing we have is right now.

I value intelligence and a great smile over a perceived "smokin hot" body. Stupidity and ignorance are such a turn off. I would rather be with a plain girl or a BBW with a great personality than a really "hot" girl who is dumb as a f*ing box of rocks. After all, the mind is the largest sexual organ in the body, despite what all those junk e-mails tell you ;-) Oh yea, I have a thing for girls in glasses.

I am open minded, non judgmental, try anything once (twice if I like it) not easily offended, with a sense of humor and sometimes labeled a smart ass. I tend to have a dominant personality, a natural leader, but am just as comfortable in a supporting role. I don't need to be in the spotlight, but at the same time don't mind being in it either.

If you think no one reads this section, you might want to think again. While your pic attracts my initial attention, as soon as I am on your page, I scroll down to this section and read all about you. If you come off as bitchy, materialistic (buy me something, bling me, blast me...), holier than thou, a point/attention whore or like you are God's gift to the world, I will click away faster than you can say selfindulgentwannabediva.

I would not say or do anything here that I wouldn't say or do if I met you in real life. I am respectful, courteous and above all, a gentleman (thats just how I was raised)

While (unfortunately) I understand the necessity of rules on here, there is a right way, and a wrong way to do it.

Basically, do NOT tell me not to do something that I wouldn't dream of doing in the first place. I am not gonna ask for your YIM, or to be in your family, to see your cam or to see stuff you deem private...DUH!!!

Also, you should have some pics of YOU on your profile. I rate pics of you so your collection of fairies, angels, unicorns, kittens, puppies, elephants, etc... is cute, but I generally won't rate them. Your profile is about you so please have you in it too.

Now, that all being said, I hope I haven't come off as a jerk, cause that was not my intention. While I am not gonna beg you to rate/fan/add me, still, it is appreciated. Btw, if you are gonna fan me, you might as well add me, I would rather have a friend than a fan anyday. :-D