So I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years, move out of his apartment and a month later we are back together as friends and have the best relationship we've ever had. He is dating his ex girlfriend, I am seeing a new guy (Boytoy they call him, 10 years my junior..wink wink) and all is happy in the world. I give up trying to understand life. All I know is it is working and I am a happy camper.