BeckyLeu's blog: "my thoughts or concerns."

The value of friendship is often the result of friends consistently demonstrating the following:
The tendency to desire what is best for the other
Sympathy and empathy
Honesty, even in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth
Mutual understanding and compassion; ability to go to each other for emotional support
Enjoyment of each other's company
Trust in one another
Positive reciprocity — equal give-and-take between the two parties
The ability to be oneself, express one's feelings and make mistakes without fear of judgement

ever just meet someone knowing it was just for se_  , really wanting a relationship, but hoped this would help even for a while, but in the start of it realize because there was no real attraction or love connection going to be with them, that it just felt routine and there was no emotions in it, and that, some how that tied into the feelings of it to, because it did`t feel like you thought it would feel.

why don`t each Town get some place lonely people could meet besides a BAR " kind of forces lonely people who hurt already into drinking !

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  • Becky Leuallen 1 hour ago
  • then they keep going to find someone, but drink more and more and after a while there Alcoholics """
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  • William Jones 58 minutes ago
  • hey you can go to a bar and not drink and still have a good time meet dance and just talk still a lot of fun,
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  • Becky Leuallen 52 minutes ago
  • most bars don`t want you there if your not buying some thing while your sitting there.
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  • Becky Leuallen 41 minutes ago
  • i use to get one drink and by the time i got half drank it was warm and all the ice had melted "" or soda`s there are already watery and they...
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  • William Jones 30 minutes ago
  • yes thats true.and your right we do need a place to meet but now we have the internet now that takes the place of face to face meeting
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  • Becky Leuallen 6 minutes ago
  • yes and it`s a shame, because some face to face meeting is still needed, it can`t replace the feel of real touch "" holding, hugging, arms around you when you really need a real one !
    

I can`t stand it anymore, gosh i don`t like bars, but i`m tired of sitting here alone, i need to meet people in person, and that`s all they
  have here where i live, I got to push my self out, like i did mom when she needed to go out !   I was hoping to get good dates here, but that ain`t happening """ !

6492.1.1. reply to: Landlords stealing by guten, 06/27/12 9:40 PM
by beckyleu, 06/28/12 8:29 AM
Re: you always hear about bad tenants of low income housing " I was in a low income housing that got awa by beckyleu, 06/28/12 8:29 AM
my money`s gone now, I don`t have the physical and emotional strength to go though that "" I`m adding it to try to worn others so maybe it don`t happen to them "" !!!

copy of security deposit letter with deductions from my former landlord, on my facebook and twitter pages: http://www.facebook.com/beckyleuallen1, https://twitter.com/#!/ERL519

help ! i`v been ROBBED ! but it`s not something i can go to the police for and can`t ford a lawyer !

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• Becky Leuallen a moment ago
• housing that provides low income housing get a write off on there ta es , and the last one i was in got a $1.005.00 security deposit plus a pet fee of $300.00 none refundable, i had to do it in payments + the monthly rent till both the security deposit and pet fee where both payed in full "" !
  
  i had lived there from Dec 08, to April 30, 12, so 3yrs and 4 months, and i had just passed a hud inspection few months before i moved out, there were no damages and i had cleaned everything to the best i could, and i had even spackled were i had pictures hung "" and yet out of that $1.005.00 security deposit, and they keep the pet fee of $300.00 "" i got back `` $300.00 "" is all """ :( no wonder they don`t mind renting to low income they kept $700.00 of my security + the $300.00 pet fee total of $1,000.00 they got away with steeling from a poor person "" because they know we have no way to fight it "" we can`t ford a lawyer "" and there`s no programs protecting the poor about security deposit returns "' :(

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  • Becky Leuallen 9 minutes ago
  • """ well good lord """" seeing all these kind of answers including the ones that want the pay back "" after the date """ no wonder us women don`t date much "" and you guys all wonder why women are not seeing you "" !
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  • Becky Leuallen 4 minutes ago
  • HERE`S JUST ONE OF THE BEST PROF WHY "" !

well i`ll be i was just looking at General Hospital "" and there`s hot built guy in a towel dancing around """ that`s much more then can be-

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  • Becky Leuallen 30 minutes ago
  • on any dam still pic on here " ! and kids of all ages are out of school """ !
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  • Becky Leuallen 5 minutes ago
  • there was just a woman in one to.

  And I Thought Of This Father only one i had most of the time i was a child,
http://youtu.be/zJvqmhGs1Y8

• Father's Love Letter, HQ
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Becky http://youtu.be/uasst6Zk4dc

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  • To All the Truly good Fathers out there """ !
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  • Becky Leuallen 51 minutes ago
  • because for my childhood my father was not a good one then.