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well, for starters they are both the bane of my life and all I want - lmao - but don't we all seek just one person that we can feel happy, content and satisifed to settle down with? A life partner, a soul mate. I don't consider myself a player, though I'm sure a few women out there might think differently - each to their own on that score - the man I look into the mirror know's I'm all good for being honest with anything in my life, from my son, to work ethics, to women. I AM a hot blooded male and I do Love sex - crikeys, it's the closest one can get to touching divinity, especially if you can be mutual at the same time, lol. Seriously, do any of you ever think about how powerful an orgasm actually is? Men will do anything to get one with a woman, and just go with the hand if they can't - and i certainly know women in my life whose sex drive far exceeds and surpasses mine, and even if that is not as common with women, I'd be disinclined to even believe that - women I have noticed, tend to just keep those things between very few, but I've seen a bunch of girls out on a night out and seen exactly how crass they can be - as long as there are no males around, or you're just all the girl's best friend - in which case you might as well be gay, lol.
Seriously though, I love women - without a doubt I consider women to be God's greatest creation - I love chatting to them, I love flirtiing with them, I love them as my friends, I love them for the times I see them with goggles on and they are just sexy to me and I am admiring that, I love them when I get to (pardon the crudity) chuck a leg over them and go jolly ho. I love women - and I've never given a damn about anything when it comes to find beauty in them - and that is my secret - every single person, male or female, is beautiful - it doesn't matter fat, thin, tall, short, scary or angelic. Every single person has one redeeming beauty and it is up to us to find that beauty in each individual. it might be eyes, a smile, great legs, a spankable ass, a set of tits you just want to be smothered by, it could be the intellect, or the personality or the heart - I take the time to seek out the beauty in everyone I meet - and even if it turns out they are not a person I am inclined to have in my life, i have made an effort to see something good in them, and what's more, i make an effort in letting them know what I see - it makes their day and i feel good about myself.
I haven't been in a relationship for eight - that's right, 8 yrs now - going on nine soon enough. I am too impetuous, to ready to go ok you'll do, I'm prepared to give it an honest shot and see where that takes me. I'd leave my job and relocate at the chance of happiness, and if it didn't work out then so be it - at least I tried and in trying I am at least living. I want a lady who can be my friend first - no biggie in and of itself, but true friendship is something that endures over the test of time. I'm not that patient, lol. And while I like whatever adventures may come my way, I'm not about just having sex - I'm better than averagely endowed but whooppee doo about that, a big cock doesn't mean anything - I want a lady for life! I don't want to be seen as just a guy with a cock.
The sexiest attribute and this is to me from my eyes/ point of view, is intellect - I pride myself on being smart and I love getting involved in a conversation with someone that challenges my intellect. I also greatly admire honesty - lets face it - I'm bluntly honest, to myself first and foremost, and I'd prefer someone tell me they think I'm an ugly fuck but they love my mind over someone bullshitting me and saying I'm sexy. I don't feel sexy, i think I'm only average when it comes to looks, I'm certainly no ripped, muscle bound beach hunk flashing my abs - (yes, i do have them, they are just protected by my belly, roflmao.) What I am is honest, genuinely sincere, I wear my heart on my sleeve, I am a hopeless romantic, i don't tolerate bullshit or simpletons - I'm also arrogant, willful, sometimes emotional, reclusive, dare I even say a little eccentric - I snore so loud i register on the richter scale, i have a few teeth that are Fucked up and just need to be removed (I'm scared of dentists, lol). I just want someone to look at me, accept my faults, don't try and change me too much, love me for who I am and what I can offer and accept all that i wish to give back. i have been told I'm too affectionate before - I understand it but don't accept it. Everything I hear from my women friends is they want a man who is in touch with who he is, not afraid to cry if the moment is there, can defend them or their honour if it so required, be a good gene pool - fuck me - we're all adults, we all know what we want and what goes on between man and woman, why we seek who we go after.
I hope some day I am lucky enough to find someone for the rest of my life, both my grandparents saw 50 years or more in wedding anniversaries - I know it is possible, I have seen it and really - I want some of that for me.
