One thing I'll never fathom is seeing a beautiful woman who is dressed in such a way as to draw attention to her figure, then blow her lid if I happen to notice.
Several times in the course of my existence, something similar has happened. I've seen women of varying ages wearing sheer tops with no bras; "Daisy Dukes" that have been cut shorter than you'd expect or believe; very low-cut cleavage-exposing tops, among other things.
I, being human and a male, have naturally noticed these things. Pretty much all of these women have caught me noticing (I don't stare, heh heh), and a lot of them have given me smiles in return, which tells me that they've dressed that way specifically to be noticed, and their reasons for this are their own; I don't make assumptions. The flabbergasting thing happens to be the few - the very few - who dress this way, then get indignant when they get noticed. I've even been chewed out a couple times, enough that I have started responding by pointing out to these ladies the inappropriateness of dressing in such a fashion if they didn't want notice or attention.
I admit I am not anywhere near an Adonis and there are a boatload of ladies that wouldn't give me a first glance, let alone a second. I understand this and accept it like you accept that you have to brush your teeth. I don't thnk this is reason to give a guy hell for "looking". If you're going to dress provocatively, you will get noticed, and not just by me. It's part and parcel of the package you put on.
Here's something I think should be taken to heart by those who ARE guilty of this: If you don't want guys looking at your boobs, noticing your body, etc., don't dress in a way that draws attention to it. There have been sexual harassment cases over such things, and while I do not believe that just because you are dressed rather sexily, you are looking for ...."attention" ("asking for it"), you are going to be noticed and it is the height of injustice that some guys have had to pay the price because of this.
Remember, there is a difference between dressing sexy and dressing "slutty" (which nowadays does not mean what it did back in the 70's). I understand women want to feel sexy and dress themselves to have that feeling, but if you do go overboard, don't get pissed off when we do notice...
