Just a few things I feel like I need to say here.... Anyone who knows me from when I joined almost 2 years ago knows that if there was drama I was right there in the middle of it. I associated with all the wrong kinds of people and got myself into more CherryTap fights than I even care to remember. Made a lot of enemies and just really couldn't have cared less. But things change with time. And when I started this new account I made a promise to myself that I would not be that kind of person. That I would think about other peoples feelings more and not just my own. And to my amazement I have actually been able to pull it off. Got rid of the people that made me feel like I had to be that way and started trying to make amends to the ones I had hurt in the past. Some welcomed my apologies with open arms, others....not so much. But the ones that can't see past my mistakes and accept my apologies are the ones that I realized I don't need anyway. Now...with that being said...let me say this... I will not be involved with any of the drama (for lack of a better word) that is going on. If that upsets you then please feel free to delete me. I am a big girl and I can handle it. If my friendship is based on whether or not I jump on the drama bandwagon then consider me not a friend. I rode that wagon before and didn't enjoy the ride one bit. If you delete me I won't come to you asking why you did. I will know why and I will be okay with it. I will not drag your name through the mud like I once would have. I grew up. And don't think I am judging anyone for getting involved. That is what this is all about. Choices. We all have the choice to be involved or not. Some choose to but I don't. I will respect your choice but I also expect you to respect mine. I have stated my opinion to who it needed to be stated to and they know where I stand. I'm sure they aren't thrilled about my opinion....but that's all it is...MY OPINION. I love my friends very much. But I have to draw the line somewhere. So consider that line drawn. Now...the choice is yours. Much love and all that stuff, Amanda |