Munchkin200673's blog: "Munchkin200673's brain freeze."

I am at my whits end here. My 13 year old son is sending IM's and text messages to a 17 year old girl who is saying I LOVE YU back. I have done everything in my power to keep them apart but she is putting I love David on her my space page they are not allowed to talk to one another anymore but now he is totally pissed of at me and is acting out with a great deal of dis respect not only to me but everyone around him. I have been told that they had slept together, and he says they didn't but his actions are showing differently. I know there is not any real way to tell if a boy is still a vergin. I know she has been sexually active in the passed. I don't know what else to do? any suggestions?

Being 33 and in college for the second time is harder than it was the first time. I thought I would be better at it now that I was older but, trying to make time for family and getting all the work done just don't work, exspecially when you have a jealous husband that thinks he needs your undivided attention. The kids understand that this is important to me but he has issues about it. yet, he'll say he don't. He don't work, He don't even do the house work on a dailey basis. He Fucked up an had relapsed on his drug use but I am suppose to forgive him and put my wedding rings back on my finger, I don;t think so. Am I wrong for telling him either get the help he needs or get out? Don't get me wrong I love him but I can't put up with him using his weed. I lnow I am better than that. It's Heart breaking to know that He can't stop or things get tough and he goes back to using. How do I get him to stop hurting me and my kids? But keep my gamily together at the same time?