I get email after email asking me to jump in the middle of member drama. I am not here to referee. Please read the following information and follow it to a "T" and your problems should go away.
If you feel you are being harassed or stalked, please BLOCK and IGNORE the person. When I say IGNORE, this means IGNORE COMPLETELY. When you react or respond to their instigating, they OWN you. Thicken your skin and DO NOT respond and the problem will go away. It might take a day or two or even a week, but I assure you this works.
Here are some useful tips!
1. DON'T GO TO THEIR PAGE. YOu will show up on their profile viewers. This always instigates more drama.
2. DON'T READ THEIR BULLETINS. You will show up on their profile viewers. This always instigates more drama.
3. DON'T post comments, bulletins, blogs, mumms, etc etc etc about this person. This will only instigate more drama.
4. DON'T Send your friends to this person's page to check things out or to fight your battle. This will only instigate more drama.
5. If the person starts harassing your friends, tell your friends to BLOCK and IGNORE.
We have over 550K cherries on the CT. Don't waste your energy trying to argue with a hater. You will only tie yourself in a knot. If you have any other useful ideas, please post a comment.
Have fun and don't let the haters ruin your day!
